After chatting for a long time, Old Wang finally found the root cause of his illness. However, on second thought, he felt that his path to finding a girlfriend was still full of thorns.
Old Wang: " Now I know why I haven't been able to find a girlfriend. But according to what you said, the girls around me know me very well, so it seems very difficult for them to be my girlfriend. But isn't it even harder to find a girl I don't know to be my girlfriend? Nowadays, how could a girl be boyfriend and girlfriend with a man who took the initiative to hit on her?!
Serena: Actually, there are many ways to do this, but I think the key lies in the first impression. To create a good first impression, you need to do some preparatory work and things to pave the way.
Old Wang, can you tell me more about the preparation work and foreshadowing?
Xiaowei: Then let me give you an example! For example, if you like a girl, but you don't know her. Then, he could test it out according to the following points:
"First, you can get to know people she's familiar with or people who know her well and treat them to a meal. I want to know some of her hobbies and things that she usually likes, right?
The second point: You have to know where she usually goes and the way she walks. Then calculate the time when she is about to come out. You start to walk in the opposite direction or in the opposite direction. You can only let him see your side profile and back. Remember to wear clothes that you will never wear normally and will not wear often in the future.
Third point: You need to know what she likes. If she likes books, first investigate what kind of books she likes and where she often buys them. Then, inform the shop owner in advance. You can also spend some money to treat the shop owner to a meal or give some money. But I think as long as you have a good attitude, the shop owner will still help you. When the girl came, no matter what book the girl liked, the boss would say,"Sorry, this book is reserved by a gentleman." When the girl did not have a second book, the boss would say,"Sorry, it's sold out. Only this book is reserved." When you saw the girl's disappointed expression, you could take a stack of books that the girl liked and go out to greet the boss. The boss would wave the book and say that the book you reserved had arrived. That way, the girl will definitely come to see you out of curiosity. Then you can say, I think I saw you and this lady talking about this book. Is there anything wrong with this book? At this moment, the girl basically couldn't answer. The shop owner had to answer immediately. This lady also liked this book, but this book sold very well. There was only one book left, but it was reserved by you.”You just pretend to be enlightened and say,"So that's how it is!" (Don't say things like "A gentleman doesn't steal what others love" at this time. Otherwise, it will give people the feeling of hypocrisy and they might doubt the authenticity of the whole thing.)）Then, he continued,"Then, when will the book be available again, Boss?"”The boss said that it might take some time, and then you could give the book to the girl. He said,"Forget it, I just bought so many books. I don't know when I'll read that book. Since this lady likes to read this book, take it!" I'll wait until the next book comes in and read it again. According to the situation, the girl would definitely say, how could this be? I'll give you money! At this moment, you would say no, and the girl would definitely insist. She might even say that if you didn't want the money, she wouldn't want the book either. At this moment, you waved your hand and said,""Then I'll take this book as a loan. Return it to me next time you see it!”Before the girl asks you how to pay her back, you have to leave immediately. At this time, the girl might catch up with you and ask how to return it to you, but you must turn into a few forks early. It was also very important to be familiar with the route beforehand.
The fourth point was very simple. He would go to the place where she often went to eat and meet her. The reason why he chose a place to eat was because he usually did not bring books with him when he ate, especially borrowed books. The reason was simple. It was easy to stain the books. It would be very awkward when he returned the book. Now that they met, they had something to talk about. Can you say that the book from last time was good? Don't say, have you finished reading? This would make people think that you were in a hurry to get the book back. And the girl would definitely say sorry because she didn't bring the book. At this time, you can say that it doesn't matter. Anyway, I'm not in a hurry to look at it. You can take your time. The atmosphere might be a little awkward. Could you say that you also like to read certain kinds of books? Then the girl would remember the stack of books you brought that day. This way, there would be more topics to talk about. As long as you did your homework in advance, you would definitely be able to leave an impression on the girl. When it was time to leave, you would ask the girl where to go. No matter where the girl said, you would just say that it was on the way. When you saw that you were about to cross the road, you tried to talk to attract the girl's attention. Then, when the car approached your door, you had to immediately hold the girl's hand and tell her to be careful of the car. At this time, the girl was very nervous when you held her hand. When she turned around and saw the car, she didn't consider how far the car was from her. She only felt that danger was approaching and would hold your hand even more tightly. When you saw that the girl's emotions slowly calmed down after crossing the road, you must not wait for the girl to let go of your hand first or wait for the girl to remind you. You have to let go first, then say sorry and explain that it's because the car is coming. If the girl blushes when she says it's okay, it means that the matter is already more than half done. If you still want to be more thoughtful, it's best to wash your hands with a facial wash before eating. Then, it's best to spray some of the girl's favorite perfume. Then, when the two of them separated, the girl would remember the feeling of shaking hands with you. That feeling was smooth and had a faint fragrance. It would definitely add points to your image.
Actually, after four o'clock, you just need to meet a few more times and be honest with the girl.
Old Wang was confused. He did not know that there were so many things to be done when looking for a girlfriend. However, he still thought of a problem, so he brought it up with the mentality of learning.
Old Wang,"Then what's the use of the second point?" It seemed that in the end, you didn't tell me why you walked in the opposite direction or crossed directions with her, and why you had to wear a set of clothes that you usually wouldn't wear and rarely wore in the future.
Little Wei: This depends on a woman's imagination. For the third point, because you lent her a book and left her a first impression, your appearance must have been left in her mind. She had seen your back and side profile before, so your appearance would give her a familiar feeling, but she couldn't remember it no matter how hard she tried. The more she thought about it, the more she would dream about it at night. As long as she had a dream, she would think that she had seen it in her dream. What did it mean that someone she did not know had seen it in her dream? According to the accumulation of women's love for romance novels and soap soap operas, one answer was obvious, and that was the fate of their previous lives. With this thought, you would meet her everywhere by chance, and everything would match her likes and habits. When she completely believed in this idea, would she not agree to be your girlfriend?
Old Wang: Strong! He even thought of this! I'm quite satisfied with this answer. When I succeed, I'll definitely treat you to a meal.
The group was filled with praises. However, Long Xiaowei revealed a bitter smile on his face. If people could really follow my instructions step by step and say my words word by word, then they would be together. Why would they need to do all this? If one could guess the human heart. Then there would not be a lovestruck man who would become a monk and a sad woman who would shave her hair and become a nun.
Love is noble, love is deep, heart is broad, fate is magical, life is rough, people are small.
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