In life, if one cared about too many things, such as fame, status, money, and beauty, and refused to let go of everything, then one would be like a burden on a cow and live a very tiring life. On the contrary, if he did not care about anything, everything was so-so, and everything could be made do with, then he would be letting himself down. There was no meaning in living. People with life wisdom would not do anything. He only cared about the things that were most important to him. He also knew what age he should care about and what he should not care about. He was willing to give and take.
At the age of ten, she should no longer care about the amount of pocket money given by her family and should not compete with other children in wearing branded clothes. It was understandable to compete with others in food and clothing when one was young. However, when one's age reached a "whole number", they should be sensible. If the family was struggling, the poor child would be able to take care of the family early. Children of this age should already know that it was not easy for their parents to earn money. Even if they could not "carry baskets and sell coal cinders", they should not add to their parents 'worries.
At the age of twenty, he should no longer care about his family background or his parents 'occupations. When they were in their teens, it was normal for them to compare their family background with other children, to be younger than their parents, and to want to be born into the family of the emperor. However, if they were still weak and had no ambition to stand on their own feet when they reached the age of "weak crown", those who were born poor and humble would still feel inferior because of their family and always feel that they could not raise their heads. Those who were born into a wealthy family and still relied on their parents everywhere and lived a comfortable life under the protection of their families were not far from being rich playboys and would not have a future in their lives.
At the age of 30, he had already married and established a career. He was a father and mother. With a few years of family life experience, the husband should no longer care about his wife's appearance. He knew that a virtuous wife was more important than a beautiful woman. A daughter-in-law who knew how to live was more likable than a daughter-in-law who knew how to dress up. The wife should no longer care about her husband's height. She should understand that ability is more important than height. A husband who has no ability to make a living, even if he grows up to be twelve feet tall, is not as good as Wu Dalang who sells sesame seed cakes.
At the age of forty, he should no longer care about other people's comments. He could say whatever he wanted and live however he wanted. People's gossip could scare the 1930s star Ruan Lingyu, but today's actors and stars would be anxious if they didn't hear any gossip or gossip about him for a week. Although we don't have the profound skills of celebrities, we won't be easily swayed by other people's comments. This kind of ability is still expected. Otherwise, we'll be letting down the word "No Doubts"!
At the age of fifty, he should no longer care about the unfair things that were everywhere, no longer care about the pressure of others 'success on himself, no longer covet the wealth of others, and no longer be a "angry youth" who hated the rich. In his 50s, he had seen countless people and was used to the autumn and spring winds. He no longer made a fuss. He had experienced success and failure and was no longer indignant. Seeing that the new rich are arrogant and domineering, they can remain calm and collected. When they hear that the rich are spending money like dirt, they are calm and calm, and they are patient. Everything had a destiny, and this beard could not be grown for nothing.
At the age of 60, if one were to enter politics, one would no longer care about whether one was a high official or a low official. After retirement, the high official or a low official would all become retired old cadres. If he was in business, he should not care about the small profits. Money could not be earned, and there was a limit to how much money he could spend. If he was good at writing, he would no longer care about the name of the article or the ranking of the literary world. After all, there was no first in literature and no second in martial arts. As long as he was in a good mood and felt something, he would write his own heart." Since ancient times, sages have been lonely." He did not care about the criticism of literary history.
At the age of seventy, when one was seventy years old, there were more things that one should no longer care about and more things that one should look down on. The things that they fought for when they were young would only be smiled at now. The things that they spent so much effort to care about when they were middle-aged seemed to be unimportant now. Many things in their lives were "all in a joke". However, it doesn't mean that I can't be calculative about everything. That's not it. I think there are three things that an old man of this age should be especially calculative about: A healthy body, a harmonious family, and a good reputation. As for other things, forget it. Whoever wanted to be calculative could be calculative.
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