I've long heard that 99% of cats are called Mimi, 99% of men are lecherous, and the remaining one may be a hypocrite…Throughout history, countless heroes, emperors, and generals have lost their countries and lives because of their lecherous nature. As the saying goes," A hero can't pass through a beauty." Which man could guarantee that he wouldn't be charmed by a beautiful woman? Which man could resist the temptation of beauty? " Ten men have nine colors." This really showed the erotic nature of men. It was also because of men's lust that there were women all over the world who were gorgeously dressed and men all over the world who were proud of themselves. Especially in today's open society, where desires and personalities prevailed, it was really like " the east wind blows, the war drums beat, lust and adultery are not crimes ". Excitement outside of marriage and enjoyment of sex were the dreams of most married men. Once they had the chance, they would drink two taels of wine to boost their courage and take out their private savings. It would be easy for them to cheat outside of marriage. Women were worried about men being lecherous. If they were not careful, their "lecherous husband" would get into another woman's bed.
So, how can a married woman control her husband's "lecherous" playboy and help her husband resist the temptation of sex outside of marriage? First, she had to insist on not being Aunt Xianglin. After a woman got married, she realized that her husband had a lot of problems, so she became a naggy woman, like a Xianglin sister-in-law, who liked to nag. If you talk about big things, you talk about small things. If you talk about bad things, you talk about good things. If there was nothing to nag about, she would nag even more when there was something to nag about, making the man restless. However, there was only one home, so the man had nowhere to hide or hide. He could accept it in one year, endure it in two years, couldn't stand it in three years, and ran away in four years. Therefore, if a man didn't want to run away, a woman shouldn't be Xianglin Sao. Men worked hard outside. After a busy day, they were tired. When they returned home, if a woman nagged endlessly like Aunt Xianglin, or was full of gunpowder in her nagging, then the home that should have been relaxed would become a cold battlefield. In fact, men needed to rely on a woman's warmth to relax themselves, and they needed a couple's affection to nourish their tired body and mind. If a man's subconscious needs were not satisfied for a long time, other women might enter the man's inner world.
Second, you must insist on not being a yellow-faced woman. Women were animals that lived in the illusion of emotions, but they were also very practical animals. Therefore, when a woman was in love, she would show her charming side. However, once she got married, it was easy for her to become casual. She let the wind and frost of the years brush across her face, her hair was messy, her clothes were wrinkled and loose, she wore pajamas on the streets, she went out in slippers, she liked to control people, and she would scold people on the streets. She was completely an old woman with no charm or attractiveness. Of course, a woman's youth couldn't last forever, but basic grooming and dressing were always necessary. Basic self-cultivation and image were still necessary. Marriage was definitely not the watershed for a woman to become "yellow". If a man didn't want to change his heart, a woman must first keep her face. With a beautiful wife at home, how could a man have an affair? Third, he had to persist and definitely praise her. Men loved to be sarcastic while women loved to be picky. This was a big taboo between husband and wife. For a husband and wife to be harmonious, affirmation was the magic weapon, and praise was the secret. Don't deny, be more affirmative, less criticism, and more praise. No matter how bad a person is, they also have their merits, not to mention the man you choose. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, not just before marriage.
After marriage, she should also have the vision of " beauty is in the eye of the beholder ". She should look at the merits more. Men should praise and even worship her. Men had a heroic complex in their bones. They wanted to be admired by women, so it was not difficult to conquer a man. Praise him, worship him, and he would submit to you. When a man is successful, he needs a woman's praise and worship. When a man is frustrated, he needs a woman's affirmation and encouragement. In this way, a man will always be in your pocket and will never be left behind. Fourth, be tolerant and considerate. Men were like big boys. No matter how successful they were in their careers or how powerful they were in the workplace, their hearts were still fragile and they needed a woman's consideration and tolerance. There were indeed many erotic temptations outside, but a gentle, considerate, and tolerant wife could not only discover the traces of her husband's inner fluctuations, but also melt and hold her husband's heart with tenderness and honey. It was not terrible for a man to have lust. What was terrible was that the woman herself had played a role in adding fuel to the fire. Many women who thought they were very smart thought that as long as they watched and controlled their men, everything would be fine. Therefore, the so-called " henpecked husband " came into being.
A man's whereabouts had to be reported to a woman, and a man had to ask a woman for money. On the surface, everything about a man was under the control of a woman, but in fact, it was counterproductive. If a woman was tolerant, gave her husband enough freedom, and became a noble person behind her husband, this was the smart way to capture a man's heart. The man was indeed a little cheap. It was also a rebellious mentality. The more she controlled him, the more she ran out. She thought that the outside world was very exciting. In fact, she let him go out and take a look. It turned out that it was better to be by her side. Men were creatures of power and lust. They always wanted something new and exciting. It was not that all men were bad. When a man was seduced by sex, it was the wife who pushed her husband to the forefront of temptation, and other women took advantage of it. The best magic weapon to keep her husband away from the temptation of sex was for a woman to be herself. Once she captured her husband's heart, she would capture her husband's body. All temptations would be vulnerable. Of course, the key to whether a man could control his lust and resist the temptation of sex was himself. A man who clearly had a beautiful wife at home but still did not know how lucky he was hopeless.
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