Some studies said that men would have one-time fantasies every six minutes. Many times, what a woman thought was simple and clear would be linked to sex in his eyes. He had created a gray area for himself, and his sexual fantasies had become his vitamins. So, what factors would trigger a man's sexual fantasies? There are mainly the following seven clips
1. The female boss's praise for him
To put it simply, it was because his performance was outstanding that the high and mighty, single, and beautiful female boss gave him praise, a smile, and encouragement.
Gray Zone: Is she interested in me?
You could think that he was just thinking too much, but men often felt that this was the so-called male boldness. He was very confident in himself. He might think about it in bed late at night, thinking that the female boss was lonely and needed his comfort. A phone call in the middle of the night, a night where the door was left open in the style of the Romance of the Western Chamber. The moon was dark and the wind was high. It was mysterious and exciting. He could not help but let his imagination run wild.
The reason why he was so easily attracted to single female bosses was related to the " gigolo " complex hidden deep in men's hearts, just like the complex hidden deep in many women's hearts. If one could obtain wealth and status without working hard, there was no man who would not be willing to give it a try. This was not only because of the gigolo, but also because it meant: First of all, he was handsome and had sexual value. Secondly, when other men worked hard for their entire lives, he could obtain wealth through shortcuts. Why not?
Having sexual fantasies about a single female boss, the global Durex sex survey report pointed out that this was basically the most important sexual fantasy content for men.
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2. Thoughts on the Road
It was very crowded. She was right in front of him. There was a faint perfume smell, a fair back, and a cleavage that was faintly visible under her summer dress.
Gray Area: Was she unintentional? However, in his opinion, perhaps she was deliberately leaning against him.
The Beijing subway was said to be the hardest hit area for perverts. Most women had experienced harassment in the subway. It was unknown if there were any women harassing men on the subway, but it was true that close contact on the subway was a time when men were tempted. He knew that he couldn't act rashly, but the more he didn't dare to act rashly, the easier it was for him to make connections. Perhaps it was a romantic encounter, or perhaps it was a sudden love. When a woman was looking for romance all over the world, a man was also looking for the romance in his fantasy. Although the train had reached its destination, it did not affect his long and boring journey. He used his ambiguous fantasies as vitamins on his way to work.
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3. Being with my buddy's girlfriend
As the saying goes, a friend's wife should not be bullied. However, don't forget another saying. Other people's wives are always the best.
Gray area: How did he manage to find such a beautiful woman? If he couldn't get it, he could fantasize about it, or he could just think of a way to snatch it away.
She was his buddy's girlfriend. One day, when his buddy was not around, he asked him to take care of her. Most of the time, when something happened, it would be during this period of time. By the time his brother returned, perhaps the mountains and rivers would have changed. He might have avoided her at first and only treated her as a good friend. He believed that " a friend's wife should not be bullied." However, the more he drew the line, the easier it was for him to let his imagination run wild. Perhaps it was because when the men were talking about the world together, his brother had already joked about the details of their sex, which made him imagine the scene of her being together with his brother. For example, Ma Xiaojun in " Sunny Days " fantasized about his buddy's girlfriend, Milan. The more he thought about it, the more he wanted to replace her. As for taboos, men were like rebellious children in puberty, the more they wanted to offend and trample on them--because he had the pleasure of offending them. The fantasies were related to his brother's girlfriend and the male's competitive spirit. Don't believe that a brotherly friendship is not reliable. There are many stories in history of iron-blooded allies turning against each other for a beauty.
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4. He and Hongyan know each other
On a rainy night, in a bar, they had a heart-to-heart talk. He was hurt, perhaps emotionally or at work. She was originally just a good friend of his, like a confidante. However, after they finished talking, she went home, and his heart was not calm.
Gray area: She was so understanding that he was like a child who wanted to take her for himself.
How many deep friendships between men and women could be stopped by love and conform to etiquette? If he could do it, he would definitely reach the true realm.
A friend of mine told me that one night, he had a heart-to-heart talk with one of his confidantes. They talked until midnight and went to bed. He did not bolt the door and did not sleep all night, constantly fantasizing that his lover might push the door open and enter. He was wondering if she was also like him, being distracted. This kind of fantasy tortured him. As a result, he did not sleep that night. The next day, his dark circles were shocked by his simple-minded girlfriend. He could only answer with a wry smile.
There was a period of time when the media hyped up the so-called " fourth type of emotion ", a kind of ambiguous relationship between men and women. It was often discovered that the one who was offside in the end was the man. When he shares his heart with you, he must often want to share your physical feelings.
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5. A girl wandering on the street at night
You wandered the streets alone like a lonely ghost. Perhaps you had an argument with your boyfriend, or perhaps you were depressed at work and just wanted to get some air.
Gray zone: A single woman without a man around her, of course he would like to strike up a conversation with her, or even kiss her.
In his opinion, this seemed to have provided him with an opportunity. Taking advantage of someone's danger was not very fair, but the chance encounter of a night was hidden in the depths of many men's hearts.
The reason why he was interested in you wandering on the streets at night was that you made him feel lonely and needed someone to comfort him. The man had a chivalrous spirit-perhaps it was sexual desire, but he thought he was doing a good deed. Next was the wandering girl he picked up in the middle of the night. Even if it was a one-night relationship, it was irresponsible and had no worries. The fast-paced modern life had already made him too tired. He did not want to have any emotional entanglements. This kind of relationship was in line with his psychology.
So, why did the bold men often whistle at a woman when she came home alone in the middle of the night, and the timid men could only think of it because many men felt that this was a very ambiguous moment.
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The Boss's Female Secretary
The company's Ann replaced Li Jian, who had a lot of support, and became the assistant to the general manager. To the outside world, this was a rather normal personnel change, but rumors gradually spread in the office: Ann was promoted because of her relationship with the general manager.
Gray area: Since she could have an affair with another man, could she have an affair with me too?
It turned out that Li Jian had intentionally or unintentionally revealed this rumor to his colleagues during the afternoon break. Li Jian was interested in Ann, but Ann rejected him tactfully, which hurt him.
In the eyes of some men, their chauvinism made them look down on those talented women. Especially when a woman became their boss one day and ordered them around, it made their male pride even more unbearable. Therefore, they assumed that if a woman was promoted, she must have had some kind of ambiguous deal with her boss to achieve her goal.
This was more or less a bit of jealousy and a little lewd. All female secretaries and bosses must have an improper relationship-this was the truth that men believed in. Perhaps such rumors would not improve his workplace environment, but he hoped to balance his wounded male self-esteem in this way. First, he did not rise, not because he was incompetent, but because he did not have the opportunity to have an ambiguous deal with his boss. Secondly, this female secretary was originally mine. Now that I can't replace her, I can't get her, and I can't let the boss get her properly.
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7. Nurse in white uniform
He was sick, and the ambulance came roaring. A beautiful angel-like nurse descended from the sky with a medicine box. He enjoyed her warm care, and she asked about his well-being. It was as if the warmth of the whole world was gathered in one person.
Gray Area: Heidi's Report on Sexology: Men's Volume mentioned that for most men, hospital nurses were easy targets for flirting.
A famous author mentioned such a plot in his novel: There was once a man who was taken care of by a nurse because he was sick. She was a professional, but he had a wild imagination. He always felt that the nurse was especially interested in him. From then on, he hoped that he would get sick soon so that he could get close to the beautiful nurse.
A friend of mine even felt that his lust was not over. There was once when he was sick, so helpless and pitiful. The beautiful nurse was very considerate to him. He thought pervertedly that if he could get her, it would be such a blissful thing.
Why was he so easily flirtatious with nurses? First, the more vulnerable a man was, the more he needed sex and comfort. Secondly, it was because the nurse took care of him. This was her professional requirement, but he was easily overthinking things. Moreover, nurses were usually gentle and considerate, and they had the potential to be a good wife and mother.
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