People who had never been in love would worry that they would miss out on love, just like a girl in a TV series said: I've never been in love either. How would I know that this feeling is love? How could I be sure? I've explained their feelings to many people before, but every time was a challenge. Love was always difficult to interpret, because it was related to the heart and personality of everyone. Some people could only love as deep as a cup of water, while others could love as deep as the bottom of the sea. Different people had different performances in love, and different people could do different things for love. Where should one go to find the coordinates of love? This was a question that many people had been puzzled about. My little friend has a crush on a girl in class.
The girl's studies were excellent, and she was like a god in his heart. He once said to me in frustration,"Mom, I may never surpass her." He did well in his final exams. I asked him, Was it possible for him to do better than her? He whispered, I don't want to do better than her. I asked why, but he didn't answer. Oh, I get it. He doesn't want to get ahead of her, afraid that she'll be sad. I guided her patiently,"If you always follow her, she won't be unhappy, but she might look down on you and think that you're not good enough, so you still have to work hard." His son was very conflicted. He said,"I really didn't think of it that way." The child was still very young, and the hazy feelings between him and the opposite sex had just sprouted. His future was uncertain.
In the direction of chaos. But this kind of emotion was like the dew on the lotus leaf in the morning, clear and transparent, with a touching sincerity. He knew that if he liked someone, he should see her smile and not let her suffer. He cared about the things that she cared about. In this current environment where grades and rankings were extremely important, he did not even want to have better results than her. This was a great courage and a great sacrifice. This was true love, a pure emotion that had not been corrupted by the secular world. I taught him the usual theory of love: Only by becoming more outstanding and capable would one have a better chance of winning a relationship. However, being low-key and respectful in front of love might be eliminated by love.
What I was concerned about was the weakness of human nature, but what he brought out was the most simple coordinates of a simple boy's love. I don't know if he will always maintain this belief, but at this moment, I believe that he is a person who knows more about love than me. True love must require this kind of infinite proximity in the soul, empathy, respect, understanding, acceptance, and dedication. These were the indispensable features of love. Love couldn't just be about desire. No matter how fanatical the pursuit was, it would only be a flash in the pan. Love must have a calm and peaceful side besides passion, pursuit, and conquest. It must also have a heartfelt wish to treat the other party well. Only in this way could one be considered to love someone and not fall in love with their own love.
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