One is to find the feeling of first love
A dull life, a boring day. Other than finding a lover, what else could make a woman who was tired of daily necessities treat herself as a princess in a fairy tale again? Lovers always made women feel like they were in love. They would never let women cook and wash dishes. Lovers would always say,"Baby, what do you want to eat?"
Her husband, on the other hand, was always smoking after work, resting his sweaty feet on the coffee table, lazily flipping through the newspaper and watching TV. From time to time, he would shout,"Is the meal ready? I'm hungry!" After marriage, most women had to go out to work to support their families. When they returned home, they had countless housework and had to educate their children. They often suffered more pressure than men. Therefore, they all wanted to find the feeling of being taken care of and doted on.
Moreover, women faced more temptations than men in their lives. Any woman with a little beauty would have countless experiences of being entangled by men from marriage to marriage. When she was with a man outside of marriage, a woman could find her first love.
The second is to enjoy the romantic feeling
Women needed understanding and support, but husbands were sometimes not the best partners. The love between husband and wife often faded away in real life. There was little time for communication and a lack of a calm atmosphere. Women were often dissatisfied with their husbands. Their husbands lacked humor, were not diligent enough, and were not considerate enough. It was simply unbearable, but who could they confide in? Who can understand the distress in work and life
Therefore, a woman needed to find a lover to confide in, and the lover was not under the same roof as her. They did not have common conflicts, but could accommodate each other and communicate with each other. A woman's lover won't find you annoying, nor will he scold you for being full all day. He will only gently comfort you... When a woman pulled her husband to admire the moon on a full moon night, the husband would impatiently say,"What's there to see about the moon?”
At this time, the lover sent a message: " Baby, the moonlight tonight is like water. I miss you..." When a woman bought a bouquet of roses on her wedding anniversary and went to great lengths to prepare a candlelight dinner, her husband would open his eyes wide."What are you spending this money for? They were already an old couple, yet they only knew how to spend money!”
No matter how much effort a woman put into looking forward to giving her husband a surprise, she would always get a cold shoulder in return. As for lovers, their lovers would be overjoyed when they saw the gifts that their women gave them. They would always say,"Baby, you're so good!" Then, he gave her a lingering kiss and a passionate hug.
Third, experience the feeling of passion
When the woman finished washing up and changed into sexy lingerie, she sent her husband a message of love with tenderness. However, her husband frowned and said,"I'm tired. I can't secrete male hormones for you anymore. I want to sleep.”
At this time, the lover would constantly praise the woman, then be gentle to the woman, and constantly ask the woman how she felt,"Alright? Do you feel good?" Under normal circumstances, when a relationship was stable, women often stayed by a man's side because of their dependence on security and fear of loneliness. Hence, cheating gave the woman a chance to think."Do I need passion and sex so much
Can they really replace my current life?”Most of the time, the brain's answer to a woman was: " Indeed, I still prefer my current life, but at least I've proved that I still have the ability to create and enjoy passion.”It had long been discovered by scientists that women who often bathed in fresh love were in good health and mental state.
The fourth is to satisfy the feeling of vanity
Men could go to massage rooms, they could hug their children and sing in K Hall, and they could stay out all night. Women were also human beings. They had to pay more than men. They had to bear children and take care of their husbands and children. Why couldn't women cheat? Why do women have to endure humiliation, be clean, and do things carefully?
Times had changed. Women's vanity had to be satisfied. They no longer wanted to revolve around the stove, men, and children. If he could find a lover, he would accompany her on the streets for a day. Looking at the dazzling array of goods, he would keep saying,"Baby, this dress is so beautiful. It will definitely look good on you.”"Baby, this bag matches your black dress very well. Buy it?”
But her husband, even if he reluctantly accompanied you shopping, was always absent-minded. When you stopped in front of high-end clothes, he would find an excuse to walk away."I'm going outside to smoke a cigarette!" When you tried on a beautiful dress and asked him to be your adviser, he would say,"You have so many clothes in your closet, why are you still buying them?”
Therefore, from a certain point of view, cheating was a woman's luck. They should not passively accept a relationship, but take the initiative to choose. It was the women's own decision whether to go out or not.
1. A woman who has an affair has a myriad of amorous feelings
Having an affair would allow a woman to understand herself better. She would know what she desired the most and what she valued the most. This was very important to a woman. If she had a choice, she would know how to give up. Having an affair made a woman have a clear goal and firm steps.
2. Cheating makes a woman more feminine
Cheating was like the popular audition. Not every woman could steal love, and not every woman had the ability, charm, courage, opportunity, and desire to steal love.
3. A woman's affair is a kind of experience
And the woman who succeeded in having an affair in the end must be an outstanding woman. She must be the best among women.
Therefore, the process of a woman having an affair was a process of training and a process of transforming a woman. A woman's life was about love, marriage, childbirth, and even more so, having an affair.
4. Women can be thieves again
However, an affair could only be a small boat sailing on a gentle river that occasionally encountered a storm. This storm would not cause the small boat to capsize, but it would make the small boat full of sails and move forward bravely. An affair was just a thunderstorm in the summer. After the storm, the sun was still shining.
5. Cheating is a temporary loss of the body's sense of smell
Attention! An affair was not stealing sex, nor was it stealing something that could be converted into material things. Cheating was a fragrant sweat, rapid breathing, a word that made the nerves relax after being highly nervous, a word that contained exploration, curiosity, excitement, anxiety, and even guilt.
An affair had nothing to do with cheating. An affair was a temporary loss of the body's sense of smell and a temporary blurring of the soul's focus. A woman should be a thief in an affair once in her life.
6. Cheating to satisfy a woman's curiosity
Compared to men, women were always curious about the man called husband lying beside her.
Many women died trying to solve this mystery: Why did I spend my entire life with this man? Therefore, women should have an adventure of cheating.
7. Cheating can open a woman's heart knot
This exploration process was the process of untying the knot in a woman's heart step by step. The man who called her husband was actually a kind of arrangement of fate. It could be said to be a chance encounter or fate.
Looking back, the woman realized that she would never be an explorer because the only thing a woman could get from any man, including her husband, was disappointment. It was like opening a big box of gifts. As the packaging was opened layer by layer, the expectations became higher and higher, but the result was already expected. What else was there other than disappointment?
8. Cheating makes women know more about love
Women were animals whose thirst for love could never be satisfied. She needed a man's care, a man's attention, and a man's body and mind to be one, even though she knew how naive this was. An affair might be able to satisfy a woman's desire for love for a while.
9. A woman who has an affair cannot have any feelings
However, a woman would soon realize that the love she needed must be safe and in line with the moral code. However, as long as it was an affair, a woman would not be able to let herself be free and could not let her emotions go.
Most importantly, women spend their entire lives chasing after the fact that they are the darling of love. This kind of feeling must be
10. Cheating allows women to understand themselves better
Everyone had two sides. One was a slut, and the other was a lady.
When a woman indulged herself as a slut, she would realize that the world had changed. On the contrary, when she presented herself as a lady, she would discover the true nature of life.
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