Someone once said that there was no true friendship between women, only competition. Although these words were a little extreme, it was true that friendships between women were fickle. They could become friends inexplicably, or they could become strangers overnight. A woman's heart was like a needle in the sea. Moreover, many women would lose their humanity once they fell in love. No friend could compare to a boy they had only known for a few days.
No matter how close and firm a woman was to another woman, it was a completely different concept from the iron between men. Between men, it was possible for them to become good friends again after experiencing a major event. However, no matter how strong the bond between women was, it was possible for them to break down over a small matter. Men were often the fuse. Although women loved to say," I'm the most muddle-headed person," women would always remember those who had let them down. It was not difficult for a woman to get along with a man. A woman's natural sensitivity meant that she would not let go of any detail.
It was not surprising that women usually viewed the same sex as their natural enemy. Just like a joke said, two pairs of men and women walked face to face. The man looked at the woman, and the woman looked at the woman. Women generally did not regard men as opponents. This was undoubtedly related to the traditional awareness of " good men do not fight with women." More importantly, women were born with some self-contempt. Therefore, the enemy of a woman was ultimately a woman. Women were stingy with their compliments, and women despised their own kind. It was not easy for women to get along.
Women's friendships were usually relatively fragile. Once a woman got married, her social circle was obviously small, so it was difficult to maintain a friendship. In particular, life situations changed rapidly and were highly random. When one's horizons were high, one would naturally feel superior. If his standard was low, his mentality would definitely be unbalanced. Therefore, women should distinguish between right and wrong, understand what they need and what they don't need. Being snobbish was not the foundation of being a person. Being consistent was the basic principle of being a person. It was the same for men and women.
Looking at a woman of the same sex for a long time. If this kind of gaze lacked a sincere smile or was mixed with too much cold exploration, then it was absolutely impossible for a woman to be liked by women. When a man gazed at a woman for a long time, it was a form of admiration. A woman staring at another woman for a long time was a kind of hidden confrontation.
There were too many things between women that could not be explained clearly. Because they were women, and because they were women, the things between women were very mysterious. At a certain time, the commonality and common prosperity carried the passion and indifference between women, including the reincarnation of some self-interest gains and losses.
Between women, it was usually the women who hurt each other the most, and it was also the women who understood each other the most.
It was just that there were too many indescribable things between women. Sentimentality, suspicion, suspicion, lack of security, comparison, power, scheming, and magnanimity.。。。。。
The only difference was that women were either allies or enemies when it came to relationships and attitudes towards men. An ally was because they had the same views, while an enemy was because they stole what others loved.
If a close friend became a rival in love, a young woman would use her youth and beauty to compete with the same woman, and a former comrade would become an opponent in the business world and become a war, what would all this mean to a woman? Was it comprehension or heart-wrenching pain?
The friendship between women was as simple as going shopping and negotiating with each other. The friendship between women was as warm as sharing a bed, as warm as taking care of each other, and as warm as sharing happiness and suffering together. However, sometimes, apart from mutual appreciation and approval, there was also a sense of comparison between women.
Every woman's vanity was more or less mixed with something that was difficult to explain. Women in this world had to be careful. It could be infinitely enlarged or shrunk.
When we watched the two older and younger women conversing, there was always an indescribable feeling of superiority and attitude between them.
When we see our ex-girlfriends betray us, it's really not a good feeling.
Women were great and insignificant. Some women had a strange way of hoping that they would always be the main character and others would be their supporting characters. Whether it was to their friends or men, they yearned to spread their charm and hope to be valued by everyone.
This kind of woman was usually very foolish and thought that beauty was everything. She thought that she was the sky. There were too many things that were difficult to figure out between the surface and the surface.
Regardless of whether others agree with me: In this world, it was women who hurt women the most, not men.
Especially the kind of woman who would act like a good girl after taking advantage of her. I've always been polite to women and I don't want to be enemies with anyone. It's just that some women are really cheap, so I have no choice but to scold them.
Perhaps you haven't seen the high and mighty attitude of a 20-year-old woman after stealing someone else's husband. Perhaps you didn't know that a pair of former good friends had become scheming because of a man's wealth. Perhaps you don't know that some women are born for money and to destroy other people's families. Perhaps you don't understand why some women are willing to sacrifice themselves to fulfill their desires and ambitions.
There are many kinds of women. Not every woman can be applauded by us, and not every woman is willing to be plain and ordinary. Many women were forced out, and many women were trained in life. They were used to hurting women as an honor. I've always thought that it's better to keep a distance or not meet a good friend's boyfriend or husband because my friend is my best friend and not him. Even if we meet, I hope that it'll be on their wedding day. It's hard to say who they are, let alone the feelings between people.
Even when a person was 40 years old, they would still fall in love at first sight. Moreover, there were too many people in the real world who wanted their own happiness and did not care about the pain of others. There were a lot of things to compete with between women. Sometimes, it was really better to take into account the feelings of others.
There were too many indescribable things between women. Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was not decided by the woman, but by whether the "sandwich biscuit" could be a person. In other words, beautiful and smart women were far less happy than lucky women. It was just that this kind of luck was profound and far-reaching in different flows.
Therefore, it was most important for a woman to recognize what she was doing and what position she was in. She did not want to pick up the sesame seed and lose the watermelon in the end. I value friendship and respect it. There were many times when women's friendships were shallow, and real handkerchief friendships were even rarer. Because he valued her, he was self-restrained, so he was humble, so he gave up. However, he would not treat everyone in this way.
There were too many shameless men and women in this world, and too few understood morality. Moreover, women's unwillingness to admit defeat was often the sword of love and friendship. The love between men and women in the world was often described as war. In fact, it was more appropriate to say that the relationship between the same sex was war. The contest between women was not like the man's knife light and blood shadow, fists and kicks, but between the seemingly gentle lips and teeth, and the graceful skirt.
Therefore, it was very important for women to learn how to cherish fate when they learned to acknowledge each other. When dealing with men, women could be more casual. Women had to be more alert when dealing with women.
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