I was a mortal, and I was once at a loss and lost. As I grew older, I finally found my place. In fact, one should not be too complacent in life. No matter what kind of person one was or what kind of job one was engaged in, one should set a position for themselves, choose their own position, and recognize what they wanted to do, what they wanted to do, and what they should do. Whether it was work, life, or relationships, people needed to put themselves in the right position.
As the saying goes, it's very simple to understand the truth, and that is," It's important to know your own limits." Some people always hoped to receive applause and praise from others before they could measure their own abilities. They would also look down on their colleagues and even speak rudely and arrogantly, causing estrangement and contradictions between colleagues and unnecessary disgust to their friends. It was not uncommon for people to be headstrong and self-righteous in social life. These people were condescending and looked down on everyone, not even putting anyone in their eyes. To belittle others and elevate himself so wantonly, thinking that he was the best in the world, if it was not a problem of moral character, then he did not know his own limits. The Master Zeng said,"I examine myself three times a day. Is it disloyal to seek advice for others? Do you not trust your friends? Are you familiar with it?" Therefore, people needed to understand their shortcomings and change them. That was a virtue.
People needed to give themselves a psychological position in society. They should not be offside or misplaced, and they should not be absent. If one set their own position too low, one would lose their initiative. Without initiative, there would be no spirit and fighting spirit. And if he was offside while positioning himself, people would be easily arrogant, and they would always stand in the gap and look at others. Dislocation was even worse. Some people would always think, what would happen if I became the leader one day? This was a kind of misplaced thinking. If I were to be misplaced, I would be mistaken for someone else. That would make me a visionary, and in the end, I would become a laughingstock. It was good to be a professor or scholar, but it did not mean that he could be a good manager. This was because managers needed the ability to manage and deal with public relations in many ways. Similarly, professors might not be suitable to be deans, and those with management skills might not be able to do well in scientific research. Each of us can recognize ourselves and give ourselves a reasonable position. Only then will our career become just right.
Giving oneself an accurate position could help one avoid many detours and avoid more unnecessary setbacks. With a correct attitude towards work and life, there would not be some unrealistic ideas and practices, and it would not affect the quality and effectiveness of the team's collective work.
Position yourself in a suitable position, concentrate on doing your job well, be neither arrogant nor impatient, get along with your colleagues harmoniously, respect each other, be a person with taste and content, continue to learn, and constantly enrich yourself. You will achieve results and show your brilliance on the stage of life.
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