In my heart, I never thought that I would slowly become calm. Perhaps life has changed me! Or perhaps everyone would go through this stage! Facing the road in the past, looking forward and looking back, how much could be regretful? Standing on the status quo will only make us lazy and unchanging. It's like being a monk for a day and striking a bell for a day. These are not what I want. What I want is a new self every day, a breakthrough every day.
A few days ago, when I returned to my hometown, my father and I had a long chat. We argued for a long time during that conversation, but I slowly understood what Dad meant. His father said," It's good that you have the spirit to improve. Every young person will have times when they are unwilling to give up. I was like you when I was young, but life is life. Life was too realistic. Let's use this society as an example! Some would always wonder why they always failed while others succeeded so easily. In fact, what they saw was just a phenomenon. They had never seen the sweat and sadness behind those successful people. This society was not about adapting to oneself, but one had to adapt to society! Even if you were unwilling, there must be conditions for you to be unwilling. If you did something impossible, it would be called persistence to put it nicely, but it would be wishful thinking to put it bluntly! You must have the spirit of not abandoning or giving up, but your heart should not be too far away. As long as your heart is close to yourself, then you will become real! Even if something didn't go your way, your heart was still in your nature. If you failed, you could start over again. You were still young anyway. If you didn't have any setbacks in life and everything went smoothly, then you wouldn't have any experience in life. When you really suffer a setback, you will really be at a loss! I hope you understand that no matter what you do, you shouldn't be arrogant. You're already past that age. It's time to calm down!”
I was silent for a long time after hearing what Dad said. What he said made sense, and I thought I had done well enough. I was much more stable than before! But after he said that, I felt that I had really pulled too far away from this! Perhaps what Dad said to me this time was a timely warning! Get closer to reality! I can't let my heart be too wild. It's time to return to my heart!
Dad saw that I was silent and seemed to understand what I was thinking. He said,"I know what you're thinking. Although you think what I said makes sense, you still have too many doubts, right?”
When I heard my father's words, I immediately came back to my senses. I said,"How could you tell? I do have doubts!”"Then tell me and see if I can give you an answer.”I said,"You told me to be realistic, but you didn't let me be too ambitious. Wouldn't that cause laziness?”Dad said," Of course not. As long as you make your own plan in your heart, just like writing an essay, don't stray from the topic! Don't think of thousands of roads at night, just walk the same old road during the day! Are you satisfied with this answer? Do you understand?" I nodded at Dad.
Yes, everyone had too many dreams, and it was impossible to realize them one by one. Some dreams seemed too far away, so you should give up! Keep it deep in your heart and realize it when you have the chance! In fact, sometimes giving up was also a kind of gain.
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