In the world, many people had a common sentiment: marriage was the grave of love, and family was a burden on relationships. He knew that even the best flower would wither if it was not watered. Even the wildest sapling would grow into a towering tree if it was carefully cared for. After three years of a long and drawn-out love marathon, we finally welcomed that day. It was also the day I tied her long hair up and put on her wedding dress. I clung to her hand and slowly stepped into the sacred palace of love. Only after entering this palace would one understand that emotions were personal, and a family was shared by two people. The emotional foundation that maintained this family was marriage. If marriage was a big tree, then the family was the shade that the big tree provided. How much effort two people put into the tree of marriage would determine how big the tree of marriage would grow. The tree could grow as big as it could, and it could provide as much shade as it could. The rain and dew that could nourish the tree of marriage was the painstaking effort and mutual tolerance. If you water this tree, I'll fertilise it. If you apply fertilizer to this tree, I will pull out the weeds for this tree. A tacit understanding over time, a long-lasting harmony, was the key to maintaining the growth of the tree of marriage. This kind of harmony and tacit understanding was quite selfish. You couldn't pour water on other trees, nor could you apply fertilizer on other trees. However, this kind of harmony and tacit understanding was selfless. Both parties had to work for the same goal and could not have any selfishness. Therefore, both parties had to do their best to cooperate with each other in order to maintain the tree of marriage.
In fact, as long as one had a sense of responsibility, it was not difficult to maintain the big tree of marriage. It wasn't like what people said, where she was exhausted because of a family. If you have this feeling, it means that your feelings have deviated from the right track, or the other party's feelings have shifted.
To protect this tree, sometimes what was needed was a knowing smile, an apologetic hug, a comfort in a difficult situation, a passionate kiss when breaking up and reuniting, a mutual concern, and a spirit of loyalty to love.
Being considerate and understanding was the beginning of respect. On the night of our wedding, after the congratulatory guests dispersed, Lan Lin and I could finally have skin to skin contact. We silently hugged each other, kissed each other, and looked at each other. There was an uncontrollable excitement in their hearts, and the touch of each other finally ignited the flame of love. I quietly said to Lan Lin,"What do I want to do?!"”Lan Lin didn't answer. She just blushed and nodded gently. Just as the waves of emotions surged, I heard Lan Lin's painful moans. "What's wrong?" I asked Lan Lin. Lan Lin frowned in pain and pressed her face against mine."It hurts. It hurts very much." I stopped all my movements and placed my face on Lan Lin's face. I could feel that Lan Lin's face was very hot, and it was the kind of heat that could melt the ice of emotions. "Why did you stop?" Lan Lin asked me gently.”"I don't want you to be in pain. It doesn't feel good to see you in pain.”Lan Lin kissed me affectionately and said,"After a few days, when the pain is gone, I will definitely let my dog be satisfied."”"But the dog is very excited. The dog doesn't want to sleep. Let's talk for a while!”Lan Lin nodded lightly. I asked Lan Lin,"I heard from the other departments in our bureau that marriage is the grave of love. What do you think of this problem?"”Lan Lin looked at me affectionately and said softly,"You like meat, right?" I said,"I love it." After Lan Lin heard my answer, she continued,"If you go to the market to buy meat, you must have the desire to eat meat, right? However, should he buy the meat, put it in the pot, add water, and salt, and cook it?”"Yes," I replied. It can be eaten." Lan Lin said again,"It can be eaten, but is it delicious?" If it wasn't delicious, would you still want to eat it after taking a bite? You definitely wouldn't want to eat it. I'm afraid you won't want to eat meat anymore. Because, in your heart, you will think that people say that meat is delicious is fake. Is that possible?" "Yes, it's completely possible." I nodded gently as I answered Lan Lin. Lan Lin looked at me again and said,"Why is this happening?" There were only two possibilities. First, the meat you bought was bad and had gone bad. Secondly, there's something wrong with what you're doing, right? If the meat you bought had gone bad, it meant that you had a problem too. First, you don't know anything, or your nose is sick. However, such a situation rarely occurred. The most common problem was that your cooking skills were not up to standard. If that was the case, it meant that there was nothing wrong with the meat itself. It was not that the meat did not smell good, but that it was because of you. You did not have the ability or skill to make the meat smell good. Am I right? If you conclude that meat is not fragrant because of this, then you are very wrong. It was also possible that because of this conclusion, you would never be able to taste the fragrance of meat for the rest of your life. If you reflect on it, why does meat smell so good when people say so, but when I cook it, it doesn't smell good? Is there a problem with my cooking method? If you think too much, you will come to the conclusion that there must be a problem with the way I cook the meat. I have to ask someone else how to cook meat, and then I'll try again. If it didn't work once, he would improve his own method. If it didn't work again, he would still improve his own method. If you persist, your desire to eat meat will not fade. Moreover, do you believe that you can definitely eat the delicious meat described by others? When you eat the meat that others say is delicious, you will definitely think that since the meat is so fragrant, if I add some seasoning, will it be even more fragrant? You definitely have to try it. If you succeed, you'll have invented a way to make more fragrant meat. Am I right?" After I heard Lan Lin's words, I asked in confusion,"I'm talking about the saying that marriage is the grave of love. Why do you always talk about cooking meat? Do you want me to cook meat for you tomorrow?”Lan Lin gently pinched my nose and said,"My dog is not only a dog, but also a stupid dog. Think about it, isn't love beautiful? Whether it was my dog or anyone else, they would all answer that love was very beautiful. Otherwise, why would so many people sing praises of love since ancient times! However, no matter who it was, if one squandered their emotions to the extreme just to pursue the romance of love, it would be a reckless love, or even a hooligan. Because love had its final destination, which was marriage. Love was like the meat that people talked about. It was precisely because some people said that meat was fragrant that so many people wanted to eat it. It was the same for love. Since ancient times, countless scholars and scholars had been praising the beauty of love. Therefore, there were so many young people of the right age and people who were qualified to pursue love. Marriage was like cooked meat. Whether it tasted good or not depended on how you cooked it. It was not a problem with the meat itself. Whether a marriage was happy or not, whether it was a grave or a paradise, depended on how you managed your marriage. When you cook the meat of love, what you give is respect, consideration, hard work, and sincerity. Then, when you cook the meat of love, it will become marriage. Do you think it's delicious?”I nodded affirmatively and said," It's delicious. It's definitely delicious. It seems that marriage is not the grave of love, but the process of managing marriage. Family was no longer a burden to one's emotions, but a harbor for one's soul.”After I finished answering, I glanced at Lan Lin and saw her staring blankly at me. Her face was flushed red as she shyly leaned her face over and pressed it against mine. I could feel that Lan Lin's face was a little warmer than usual. Lan Lin muttered,"Doggy, I'm not in pain anymore. What do I want you to do…"”Only with mutual respect could there be good communication. Only when one's heart could communicate well could the flames of love burn.
I forgot which writer said this: "If you have a gentle and virtuous wife, you will have a warm family.”Because a woman's gentleness could calm an unruly heart. Because a woman's virtue could make a restless desire return to its duty.
Lan Lin's words on her wedding night echoed in my ears. Therefore, I kept this creed in mind. That is, no matter when and where, I must have 100% respect and care for Lan Lin. Therefore, every day before I go to work, I have to praise Lan Lin."Why do I feel that Lan Lin is so beautiful when I saw her this morning? Oh! It's because of the burning passion last night that my Lin 'er is so beautiful.”Lan Lin would always walk up to me gently and help me tidy up my clothes. Then, she would say,"This way, it seems like he can go out quickly. Otherwise, people would still say that this person is a bachelor, right? Even if he wasn't single, he had married a lazy wife. Otherwise, he wouldn't be dressed like this.”After all this, he would always come up and kiss me gently, then say,"I love you and miss you. Go home early after work."
The words 'I love you, I miss you,' and 'go home early from work' would forever bind a heart. Therefore, I would call Lan Lin almost every day after work."Lin, I'm off work. What do you want to eat? I'll go back and buy it.”Lan Lin's answer was always,"I'll buy whatever you want to eat. As long as you like to eat, I'll like to eat.”"It can't be, right? You must have your own taste!" "My dog, have you heard of love for a house and its crow? Because I love you, I will eat whatever you like. This was what it meant to not be a family!”"No, I have to make you say what you like to eat today. What do you want to eat?”"Then let me tell you. Today, I had a client at noon. When I was eating at the restaurant, I ate the braised pork and braised pork ribs there. I asked the chef and learned a few tricks. Buy some pork belly and ribs. I'll cook them when I get back.”"Isn't this my favorite?" Lan Lin said coquettishly on the other end of the phone,"I just want to eat it." "Okay, I'll buy it."
The two of them lived happily with each other's respect and consideration every day. Until one day, I realized that Lan Lin always started to vomit as she ate. Moreover, she liked to put a little vinegar in everything she ate. I was curious and asked,"What's wrong with you? Are you sick?"”"Are you stupid? You're going to be a father soon, and you don't even know this!”Lan Lin replied playfully. "Is that so? Then you don't have to do anything in the future. I'll take care of everything at home. Your health is my hope.”"The doctor said that it's not good to stay here all the time. It's not conducive to the development of the fetus.”"Then you can just focus on exercising. You don't have to worry about the housework. After all, you have the crystallization of our love in your stomach. You alone shoulder the mission of two people.”Lan Lin gently walked over and kissed me gently."Why is my dog so obedient all of a sudden?”"This is all because of your training! Initially, the dog didn't know how to do anything and didn't want to do anything. Now, he felt that if he didn't do anything, he would be sorry.”
As Lan Lin's stomach grew bigger day by day, a new kind of sweetness was quietly growing. Today, the unit held a sports meet, and I participated in a long-distance run. After work, as soon as she entered the house and took off her shoes, she saw Lan Lin walking up to her with a wrinkled nose. Then, she said,"Doggy, the taste of nutrition today is sufficient. Hurry up and take it off and wash it. Don't keep it.”After I heard that, I quickly took off my socks and sniffed them. I even said,"It smells good and fresh. If you don't believe me, smell it." Lan Lin smiled and said," I also smelled it fresh, but Baby wasn't doing it. Baby was angry and kicked my belly!”When I heard that, I quickly said,"Really? Then she had to wash it quickly. Two people smelling it, and only letting you smell it was acting coquettishly. The three of them smelled a little bad.”After saying this, Lan Lin and I both laughed.
Qiu Yu asked Wu Tong," Why are you always here? Why don't you move?"”Wu Tong replied," I'm afraid that when the moonlight comes out and doesn't see me here, my heart will feel sad."”Qiu Yu continued," But the moon turns from east to west every day. Does it drift around and not feel sad because it can't see you?”" You don't understand," Wu Tong replied." The moon is wandering around to illuminate my heart and surroundings.”" Then why is it hiding behind the clouds?" Qiu Yu asked Wu Tong." Is it tired of your feelings?"”Wu Tong still answered firmly,""You don't understand. It's turning the depression in its chest and its longing for me into a kind of sadness. Although you are its tears, you do not understand its sadness, nor do you understand its heart. Only I can read the moon's heart, and only the moon can soothe my wounds and make me feel the coldness of the world.”
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