In people's daily lives, it seemed that many people were unwilling to accept a plain life. Because dullness meant that there was no passion. This was because being calm also meant that there were no emotional waves. Many people were more willing to pursue fanatical excitement and thrilling spectacle, thinking that such a life would have more sentimental charm. In fact, everyone's life tends to be more dull. It can even be said to be a boring dull. Therefore, we can come to a conclusion. How to manage a marriage and how to manage a family better depends on how you manage a life of peace. Whether a family was happy or not could reflect a person's ability to run a simple life. A person's ability to manage a plain life could also tell a person's final achievements.
Being able to have passion was just a kind of yearning. However, ordinary people couldn't just live in their dreams. To be able to maintain a calm state was the highest realm of maturity and stability. I once heard a successful person say this to me: "A true winner doesn't depend on how much money you have, but how much money you can control. Only those who could control money were worthy of having more money, so that the money they had would not be lost.”To apply this sentence to life: "A person who is truly successful in family life, a person who can create a happy family, is not determined by how much passion you have, but by how much passion you can control. If you can turn all your passion into dullness, you can also turn all dullness into passion.”
As Lan Lin's stomach grew bigger and bigger, the day when Lan Lin was about to give birth was getting closer and closer, and Lan Lin's movements became more and more clumsy. Sometimes, I even need to help you in bed. The relationship between husband and wife is the most ordinary during this period of time. There was no passion because for the sake of the child's health and Lan Lin's healthy husband and wife life, they had to stop. However, no one could say that in this period of dullness, nothing great was brewing. Because this period of peace was giving birth to the greatest miracle of mankind. That was life, a new life that maintained the crystallization of their love. A new life that two people poured their blood into would come to this world in the near future. Who could say that this wasn't passion, wasn't this greatness?
If you want this passion and greatness to develop healthily in both body and mind, you must always pay attention to your words and deeds and try your best to create a good living environment and atmosphere for the other party. Happiness could not be imitated, it could only be created. Unfortunately, it could be replicated and continued. Because in people's minds, there was always a habitual thinking formed by the environment that they grew up in. This effect existed subconsciously and could sometimes influence our own habits and behaviors to a large extent.
On this day, after completing her routine walk after dinner, Lan Lin leaned lazily against the headboard with my help, her hands habitually stroking her stomach. His expression was serious and focused, as if he was stroking a precious piece of art. Occasionally, he would turn his head and look at me quietly. I asked,"What's the matter?" Lan Lin still smiled lightly out of habit and replied,"No, I'm just willing to look at you quietly like this. Why do I feel like I've never seen enough?”I also smiled and said,"Don't always praise me. Don't I have any flaws?" Be careful not to lift me too high that day and fall even more painfully.”Lan Lin nodded and said,"It would be a lie if you didn't have any shortcomings, but it depends on how you treat the shortcomings of the person you love." If he were to blame her blindly, it might arouse resentment, and it would not have a good outcome for things, life, and the family. We're all ordinary people, and we're all living ordinary lives. Therefore, we don't need to be great! That was to be a proper person and live a down-to-earth life. Therefore, if it wasn't a big flaw that involved squandering, but a habit in life, there was no need to hit the nail on the head. If you really love him, you can slowly overcome and correct his shortcomings, intentionally or unintentionally, because these shortcomings have no decisive effect on life. Therefore, there was no need to make a big fuss about it. A man with a conscience would reflect on his actions every day. Therefore, he would know when he was wrong. If you really love him, just give him some advice. A man without a conscience, no matter how much trouble you make, it's useless. Therefore, the best way was to leave. There was no need to make a fuss. After all, ordinary people only cared about their lives and did not care about the political power and stability of the country. For example, you. That's good. Anyway, I think so. Weakness! It's just that my feet are too smelly, but can I blame you? At the beginning, I was also thinking, Aiya! Oh my god! Why did I choose such a man? How long do I have to endure this smell? But then, I thought, you're a very outstanding person. Can I despise you because of a flaw that you can't overcome yourself? And use this to attack you? After all, you are a piece of art that I have carefully sculpted. I have sculpted you for such a long time to make you so perfect. If I let go, who knows how many people will snatch it and treat it as a treasure! So be it. He just needed to wash his feet in time when he got home. A good craftsman was able to make use of the flaws of the jade very reasonably and make the flaws go through his own ingenuity to achieve the goal of being ingenious. It was not because of a flaw that the jade was smashed. After thinking about it, if I didn't smell your feet that day, I wouldn't be used to it. Why aren't you talking, dog?" I smiled and replied,"I'm just listening to you!" I'm willing to listen to you and watch you talk. I just didn't know that you liked the smell of my feet so much. If I had known, I wouldn't have washed them. Once he returned home, he closed the door and kept Wen Daoquan in his own home. Thinking about it, it made sense. Why should they share their own things with outsiders?”Lan Lin frowned slightly and asked me,"Are you willing to use your unique smell to smoke me? If you were willing to do so, I would be able to endure it. I'm afraid that you wouldn't be able to endure it if you didn't wash your feet for a day.”I smiled and asked,"How do you know?" Before we got married, I told you that the last thing I wanted to do was wash my feet, especially in winter. He didn't know what was going on. After getting married, I was afraid that you would say that my feet were smelly, so I quickly washed my feet as soon as I got home. Now, it had really become a habit. He really couldn't stand it if he didn't wash it for a day.”Lan Lin asked me in a gentle voice,"Doggy! What do you mean by living?" "I really haven't studied this problem. That's because you were the one who took care of everything at home in the past. I was really too lazy to study this matter. Anyway, I just felt that I was quite happy to have you.”I answered Lan Lin's question with a smile. Lan Lin continued," Actually, living a life is all about managing a peaceful life. You have to build a good relationship with the neighbors and resolve any possible conflicts due to normal feelings. You have to let the neighbors return to a peaceful life. With his wife and children, he had to grasp the general direction, leave some personal space, and return his family relationship to a normal one. In the unit, he should communicate and understand more with his superiors and colleagues. He should be less calculative and have less friction. He should put the relationship between his superiors and subordinates and his colleagues into a normal one. If you had the ability to turn everything magical into ordinary, then you would have created the greatest miracle. In fact, the relationship between dullness and wonder was not that of opposites. Instead, it was two aspects of the same thing, and the two complemented each other. If you couldn't manage it smoothly, you wouldn't be able to create miracles. Only when you manage the business well can you create great miracles. The foundation was to manage the business well, and the result was to create magic.”Lan Lin looked at me again. I smiled and said,"Lan Lin, continue. I'm listening!”Lan Lin took a deep breath and changed her posture. She said,"Is the Great Wall great? Great, but where did the greatness of the Great Wall come from? It didn't fall from the sky. If it weren't for those hardworking craftsmen who had to repeat the boring work of bricklaying and smearing mud every day, perhaps future generations wouldn't be able to see the miracles of today, and the greatness of the Great Wall today. Just like how I go to work every day, people will ask, why are you laughing every day? Why didn't they argue or something? I always answer, no! Was there a need for the couple to quarrel? Moreover, Wang Bin is such a good person. No matter what happens, he never makes me angry. He always spoils and coaxes me. Sometimes, his colleagues would even express their opinions. If Wang Bin was really like that, then you had to control him more tightly. If you needed to scold him, then scold him. If you needed to hit him, then hit him twice. You could never let him ride on your head. Actually, Doggie, do you think it's necessary? I said that there was no need to, so my answer was that our Wang Bin had done too well. I really couldn't find a reason to hit and scold him.”I grinned." You women are women. You always answer the same question like a woman." My colleagues at work sometimes ask me,'Wang Bin, why are you getting younger and more energetic recently? She looked like a completely different person from before she got married.'I would always reply to them,'Lan Lin coaxes and serves me like a child every day at home. How can I not be happy?'Every time they heard this, they would say,'I wonder when you got lucky and married such a good wife. You really deserve to be compared to others.'They are all envious and jealous of me. Do you think I dare to treat you badly? If I'm not careful and offend you and run away, won't it be too late for me to regret? Because you definitely have the gentleness and kindness that all men hope for. You are a true wife and mother. Besides, you're so beautiful!”When Lan Lin heard this, she smiled happily and turned her face to say,"Am I really that good and important in your heart? Regardless of whether it was true or not, the dog's words touched me. Come over and kiss me so that your words will have a satisfactory ending.”I was stunned for a moment." Come over here and kiss me. You were the one who took the initiative to kiss me. Why did you ask me to kiss you today?"”When Lan Lin heard this, she rebuked,"You're really stupid!" Isn't it inconvenient for me to move?" When I heard this, I chuckled."Aiya, that's true. Why are you so silly today? You weren't like this in the past. You're so smart! It's all because of you. Alright, for the sake of the baby, I'll make do with myself and make do with our greatest angel now.”
Life was dull, but true love didn't need vows. True love was the constant concern and endless longing. True love is a long-term bond, and the eternal desire to hold hands.
Lan Lin was also a very persistent and strong-willed person. Her due date was approaching, but she still insisted on going to work. She said that the doctor said that more exercise was good for childbirth. However, this made him feel worried. Every day, after accompanying Lan Lin to the unit, I would return to my unit from Lan Lin's factory. However, even when she arrived at the unit and went to work, her heart was still worried about Lan Lin's every move. He would call her later to ask,""Lan Lin, how is it?" "Doggy, don't worry! I'm fine. I'm fine. I'm just a little stupid, but I'll make do! Boss Wei is a good person. Basically, I'm just here to talk. I don't have any specific missions. They take good care of me, really.”"Yes, it's good that you're fine. Lan Lin! Have a good rest after lunch. I'll pick you up after work in the afternoon.”"Yes! Okay, doggy, I got it. You should also take note that you've been quite tired during this period of time. Everything is on you. Have a good rest at noon. After work in the afternoon, there are still many things to do when you get home. Sigh, you'll be tired for a long time. I guess you'll only be able to get out of it when the baby can walk and is no longer tired!”"I'm fine, Lan Lin. Is there anything in this world that doesn't require you to pay a price? Not to mention, being a father was such a great thing!”"Yes! Alright, Doggie, don't keep calling if there's nothing. Just work hard! I will take good care of myself. Why do I feel like my dog is always worried about me now? Don't worry. I'll take good care of your wife and your baby.”"Is this a special period? You're different from usual. Your movements are clumsy and slow, and your body is very heavy. It's very easy for problems to happen. Be more careful.”
Everything needed careful care, including love. Love didn't just require a vow that one's heart wouldn't change, nor did it require a wish that one wouldn't grow old until you came. Love needed more care and cooking that was as gentle as a breeze and a drizzle.
It was a wild flower blooming outside the window. But every day, it also experienced ups and downs as usual. Every day, like me, it receives the first ray of sunlight in the morning and sends away the last ray of sunset in the evening. Although the storm ravaged it, it made it stronger. Although the scorching sun was also devastating to it, it also made it stronger. No matter whether there were people who appreciated its fragrance or not, there were people who appreciated its strength.
Love without vows was dull, but within the dullness, there was a glimmer of hope. Because of the bond, one would always feel the warmth of the other party. Because of missing someone, you would know how to cherish and be considerate of the other party. The emotions in the calmness were like the wildflowers outside the window. Although no tourists had ever paid attention to it, it still existed in this world, and it had once lived its entire life. It had also experienced wind and rain, and had also embraced the morning sun. It had once emitted a faint fragrance. Even if it did not attract anyone's attention, that faint fragrance could sometimes attract the bees.
There was a kind of emotion called having each other, a kind of longing called never getting tired of each other, a kind of holding hands called holding each other's hands, a kind of snuggling called eternal heart, a kind of comfort called always thinking, a kind of attachment called lingering affection, and a kind of promise called being loyal to each other.
On a sunny day, the parasol tree would always look up at the moon quietly. The moon would also quietly sprinkle its light on the leaves of the parasol tree and all the gaps that could be penetrated. They would interweave with each other and be attached to each other. They would always enjoy the quiet feelings in happiness.
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