Because Wu Tong had a heart, she had her own personality. With personality, one would have a status symbol. Only with a status symbol would they be willing to silently admire the moonlight. It was only because he understood the meaning of the moonlight that he could forever maintain the peace in his heart. Their true feelings attracted each other's eyes. The promise of holding hands that they had made back then had only been proven after experiencing the wind and rain. In the spring, summer, autumn, and winter, Wutong would always do her best to express her feelings for the season. The vicissitudes of time, tied down the fleeting years.
On a clear night in early spring, the sky would always be particularly refreshing. A crescent moon hung in the distance, like a beautiful woman smiling with her eyes curved. It was clear and bright. Behind the brightness, there was a deep emotion. This kind of deep affection could make the rain drunk, the wind drunk, the bridge drunk, and the path drunk.
The enchanting moonlight was accompanied by a seductive song. Dense with the fragrance of flowers, who could not murmur for the flowers and the moon? People were infatuated with spring, not because they were reluctant to part with the spring rain that was as expensive as oil, nor was it because they were stingy with the willow wind that blew on their faces. If there was no heart to pour out, who could appreciate the indistinct and hazy willow embankment fog lock building.
Fresh flowers did not grow fragrant to attract bees and butterflies. It was the fragrance that attracted the favor and busyness of bees and butterflies. The ferry in early spring, on the bridge of fleeting years. There were always beauties waiting for him. There were always infatuated men who were confused by their own persistence. Colorful colors did not necessarily mean that people were destined to appreciate them. With the bees and butterflies, there might not be a unique fragrance. Because the peony was magnificent and the lotus was fragrant, only those who could understand the state of mind of the flower could read the character of the flower and tell the true feelings of the flower.
The mirage was a dream that people yearned for because of the confusion that was difficult to solve. It was only because they had dreams that they could attract many people's yearning. Because of the fragrance of flowers, people could pay attention to and appreciate the colorful flowers.
One day, the neighbors across the street quarreled. As it was early spring, the weather had just warmed up. Therefore, under Lan Lin's repeated requests, I walked out of the small room that I lived in. Under Lan Lin's affectionate arms, I accompanied Lan Lin to the road and began the stroll that women liked. As he walked, he listened to Lan Lin's nagging."Doggy! You have to move more in the future. Otherwise, your body's functions will decline very quickly. I don't want you to age too quickly. She made the sofa her lifelong support after dinner.”They chatted as they walked. It was unknown if they were tired from walking or if Lan Lin was tired from nagging. In any case, Lan Lin was the one who suggested going home first. On the way home, she saw an old couple selling fried game by the roadside. The men were busy frying the oil while the women served the customers. The two of them chatted and laughed. Lan Lin said," This couple might not be young anymore. In a year, as long as it's not windy or rainy, you can always see this old couple before 11 o'clock in the afternoon and 11 o'clock in the evening. This old couple always worked very hard, so everyone thought that this old couple had no children. Even if they had children, they were not filial. Otherwise, at such an old age, he definitely wouldn't have come out to do this. Actually, everyone was wrong. Not only did he have children, but his children were also very filial. Moreover, this old couple was not unemployed. They were both retired people. Their monthly salary was not enough for them to spend. However, why did the two of them still come out to set up this stall? The old couple's answer was,"Where are you?" As long as he was alive, he could still move! You have to create value for others."
As they walked, they gradually approached the door of their house. As long as they turned the corner in front and walked another 200 meters, they would reach the downstairs. Lan Lin used her hand to quietly point at a man and a woman who were also setting up a stall by the roadside. This pair of man and woman were still very young. His age is about the same as ours, about 31 or 32 years old. Lan Lin whispered to me,"This man has a family, and that woman also has a family. I mean, they both have their own families." A man's wife liked to play mahjong, and a woman's husband liked to play mahjong. His original family was always quarreling. They couldn't go on anymore, so they divorced. She did not know who was meddlesome enough to bring the two of them together. There were even more troublesome people who had brought together a man and a woman who used to love playing mahjong. Did you see that? It's the couple who set up the street stall. They don't fight anymore. Moreover, the girl from the woman's side and the boy from the man's side have both brought over. The two of them went to work during the day, and at night, the two of them set up a stall here. They said that they could earn more than they could earn. Anyway, they could earn a month's worth of food money. The two of them lived quite harmoniously. Not only were the two of them harmonious, but their children, who were not related by blood, were also quite sensible. The two children also respected each other. They never quarreled, just like a marriage alliance. The two adults couldn't tell the difference between them.”"The two mahjong players have formed a new family, so they definitely won't fight anymore."”Lan Lin asked me,"Why don't they fight?"”"With the same hobbies and a common language, they definitely won't quarrel.”Lan Lin said," You're wrong. You only know that you have the same hobbies. However, don't forget that a family can't be maintained by just hobbies. There were still many things that needed to be done. At the very least, they needed a sense of responsibility on both sides--a sense of responsibility towards this family. The pair of mahjong players quarreled every day. If they didn't quarrel every day, they wouldn't be able to live. As quarreling had become a common behavior, people were too lazy to persuade them to fight.”I asked Lan Lin," How did you know?”Lan Lin smiled and said,"Because these two stall owners work in our factory."”Just as Lan Lin said this, she heard the man who set up the stall greet Lan Lin,"Boss Li, where's the turn?" Lan Lin immediately replied,"Master Ma, it's out again."”Master Ma smiled and said," There's nothing to do here anyway. There's nothing to see if we just watch TV. Why don't the two of us set up a stall? If we can sell it, we'll sell it. If we can't sell it, we'll just treat it as walking around like you two."”Lan Lin said," Mm, okay. You guys go ahead. We'll go home first. Goodbye!"”
As soon as we got downstairs, we heard a heated argument in the house opposite our house. Lan Lin said,"This is the new family formed by the couple playing mahjong. Haven't you heard them quarrel for a day?"”I thought for a moment and replied,"Really, it's very rare when there's no noise."”
The man raised his voice an octave and shouted,"There's no f * cking way to live these days. I'm also curious. I don't even know what you've been doing all day. I came back from playing cards, but I haven't finished cooking! The thermos bottle was empty. How could he live such a life? Tell me, tell me." As the man shouted, he seemed to be throwing something. Because there was a banging sound coming from the window. The woman did not show any weakness and retorted,"I didn't cook. Can't you cook yourself? I didn't boil water. Can't you boil it yourself? Why should I do all these things? You play cards, I'll play cards too. You're tired, I'm tired. Why don't you tell me what you did?”Then, there was a loud bang, as if a thermos bottle had been broken. The man shouted loudly again,"I've never seen a woman like you. You're so lazy. Look at Li Lanlin, who's opposite them. She's even a big boss! How much money did they have? How much money does she earn every day? Look at her. She serves her husband so comfortably. What about you? What the f * ck do you know how to do? You just know how to eat.”With a loud thud, the man threw something on the ground. The woman immediately continued,"Why don't you look at Wang Bin? Wang Bin was afraid that he would scare his wife if he spoke loudly. He was also the office director with authority. He had never put on airs at home. Who do you think you are? Why are you so difficult to please?”This time, it was not a bang, but a crash. The woman had probably pushed down the clothes rack. That was because he saw a shelf-like object hitting the window from downstairs. The glass on the window shattered and fell downstairs. Coincidentally, a middle-aged woman who had just walked out of the building was caught off guard. A piece of glass pierced her arm and blood immediately flowed out. It looked like it was stabbed quite deep. The other party couldn't take it anymore and went to smash their door even more angrily than the two of them. It was this chance encounter that ended the war between the two of them. He sent this middle-aged woman to the hospital. Without this middle-aged woman, no one knew how long this war would have lasted.
When I got home, I washed up and said to Lan Lin,"I really didn't know that the two of us were even respected by others!”Lan Lin smiled and asked me,"Do you know why the two of them quarreled when they re-formed a family? The other two had also re-formed a family. Moreover, it was very obvious that the other party's burden was much heavier than theirs, but the other party did not quarrel?”I shook my head. Lan Lin continued," Don't look at a family too simply. The members of a family can't get along just because they have the same hobbies and a common language. This is because the most important factors for a family's stability and harmony aren't these. These are just minor details. Happiness could not be replicated, but misfortune could continue. In a family, there was no absolute personal center between each member. There could only be one common focus, and that was home. A person at home could not only talk about taking, but more about giving. This was because two or more centers could not have a common radius. Therefore, it was absolutely impossible to draw a common circle. Only when every member of the family saw themselves as a point on the circle of the family and everyone revolved around a common radius could there be a common centrifugal force and the family could be in a harmonious and stable state.”I replied,"Why do I hear my Linlin's words so incisive today? Why did he raise the seemingly complicated problem of a family to the height of theory and analyze it so deeply and accurately?”
Lan Lin always liked to read quietly and think quietly when she was free. In general, Lan Lin was a person who liked to be quiet and not move. However, he was not the kind of person who absolutely did not like to move. He was very particular about his daily exercise. Other than the daily walk after dinner, he was now taking a very fast walk to lose weight. Most of the time, he would just stay at home and think about some things, read books, listen to music, sing in karaoke groups, and so on. He basically had no other hobbies. He only knew how to play poker, and there were very few types of poker. Occasionally, he would visit other people's houses, but it did not last more than half an hour. From the outside, Lan Lin seemed to be a person who was not easy to approach. However, Lan Lin was actually an extremely hospitable person. Her colleagues and friends would always ask her for help, and she would always agree readily. Therefore, Lan Lin's reputation was quite good. This was the same as the people who often talked about people who didn't know how to play mahjong or people who didn't know how to drink. Their social circle was definitely not very wide. However, this law didn't work on Lan Lin. From Lan Lin, I saw that people are also categorized by interests and hobbies. There were always people with similar interests. There were still people who had nothing to do. In Lan Lin's eyes, people who surrounded the mahjong table every day had nothing to do. People who always circled around the wine table every day were people who had nothing to do. Besides drinking and playing mahjong, there were still many interesting things for humans to do. There were also many noble things waiting for people to pursue. A person with a good mindset would definitely manage the family well.
Not long after we returned home and sat down, someone knocked on our door. I opened the door and saw that it was the man opposite me. He was the man from the couple who had just fought. I opened the door and let him in. I asked,"Big brother, what's the matter? Come in and sit down. We can talk about it slowly.”The man said," I'm sorry. We had an argument just now. In the end, that prodigal woman broke the window glass." Didn't she just stab the one upstairs? She was admitted to the hospital. The hospital said that the surgery would cost about 8,000 yuan. I'm very tight on money and can't take out so much at the moment. I want to borrow some from you.”When I heard this, I said,"Look! Big Brother, I usually don't care much about my family's matters. I really don't know if my family has so much money. I'll ask Lan Lin for you!”I called Lan Lin over. When Lan Lin heard this, she said,"Where's the cash? It's late at night, and I only have about 3,000 yuan. I don't know if it's enough. If it's not enough, I'll think of another way tomorrow.”The man opposite said,"Enough, enough."”"Why did they quarrel again today?" Lan Lin asked.”The man who was quarreling said,"I'll tell you! There was no woman in the world who knew how to live like this. He did nothing but play cards all day long. At night, they would fight until the end of the day, and they would sleep during the day. She was energetic at night. After dinner, she went out to play cards. It was the same every day.”"What about you?" Lan Lin asked. The man said,"I'm a man. It's normal for men to play mahjong."”Lan Lin said,"Actually, there's something that a man can do and a woman can't, unless it's something like giving birth." It was normal for them to play mahjong occasionally, sometimes in the afternoon, and sometimes when they had a small gathering with friends. It was not a bad idea for everyone to bond and liven up the atmosphere. However, if they fought day and night, it would not be a good thing. Both of them should reflect on themselves. In fact, if the two of them put all their thoughts on how to live and how to maintain this family, all the problems would be solved. I don't know if I'm right or wrong. It's just for your reference. You don't have to be angry if you say something wrong.”"You don't know!" The man said again. I'm actually quite bitter in my heart. Let's talk about my original wife! Even though we often quarrel, I have food and drinks prepared for me when I come back every day. Later on, maybe she really couldn't stand me anymore, so she proposed a divorce. Now that I think about it, it seems like she didn't do anything wrong. I'm the one in the wrong! Look at the couple. They're living like that now. Look at the two of us. Neither of us wants a child yet. We've both given the child to each other. Who knew that the days without children not only reduced the financial burden of life, but also provided more time for playing mahjong. The two of them are living their lives, while the two of us are fighting! Alright, I still have to go to the hospital quickly. I won't chat with you guys anymore. We'll talk again when I have time.”Lan Lin smiled faintly and said,"Alright, hurry up and get busy!"”
After he left, Lan Lin said,"Don't rush him to pay the 3,000 yuan. He can pay it back when he wants." Don't worry! I won't be able to repay you in a short period of time." "Impossible! The two of them were neither old nor dull. It was not to the extent that they could not pay back the three thousand yuan, right?”I answered Lan Lin. Lan Lin smiled lightly and said,"Do you know that the words of people who are infected with those two diseases are the most untrustworthy?" Let me tell you, one is gambling, the other is prostitution. This was because people who were infected with these two problems were no longer focused on their homes. Therefore, the two people in this family should be at the center of each other's circle. Do you still want the two of them to draw the same circle at the center of the two circles? There was no possibility at all. This was especially true for this man, whose mentality had already changed. He began to miss his former wife. If that woman had the same mentality, then their family would not last long. That's because you can see it too. Look at how the two people who set up the stall are doing. Look at how the two of them are living their lives. The other party was responsible for the food, clothing, tuition, and miscellaneous fees of the two children. Besides the two of them, there was no other burden. However, their lives were not as good as others. This was because the two of them were two points on the same circle. They were both revolving around the same center of the circle. It was also what we often said, to put one's strength in one place and think in one place. How could his life not be prosperous? As for the couple opposite, they both wanted to keep the money in their pockets so that it would be more convenient for them to squander. To them, the two members of this family were already separated from each other. Humans were such a strange creature. When two essences were together, it was impossible for them to be more essence. However, the combination of the two dregs would definitely not produce the essence. It would only make it worse. Unless both of them were determined to turn over a new leaf, it was impossible for them to be reborn. No matter how big or small it was, from the national level to the family level, there was no exception. Have you seen the history of revolution in China? They gathered the elites of the era, so they were able to seize the world. Why? This was because Old Man Mao's group was a group of people who could make the fire burn. As for the Jiang Corporation? Although there were also elites like the Eight Great Guardian Deities. However, after all, there were too many parasites in the group. These people's best trick was to steal the beam and replace the pillar. Therefore, it was not surprising that he ended up hiding in Taiwan.”Lan Lin paused for a moment and continued,"Also, the more harmonious a family looks, the less the adults scold the children. However, her child was very obedient. On the surface, it seemed like the adults were irresponsible and not serious about their children. In fact, it was possible that the adults of other families had a deeper understanding and understanding of the principle that example was more important than precept. However, some families were the opposite. Fathers would beat their children up, and mothers would do the same. They would either scold or beat them up. On the surface, the parents were quite strict and disciplined. However, the effect was often the opposite. Why? This was because this kind of discipline lacked kinship. To discipline a child, one must first make him feel the existence of kinship before discipline. Only then would he know that you were disciplining him for his own good. Those who could be persuaded must not be scolded or beaten. If it didn't work, it was fine to scold him occasionally, but if he found that scolding was useless, he had to change his way of thinking and work. He wanted to see if his methods and actions were wrong. Don't force the child to do what you want. Forcefully reversing the situation was often not as effective as making the best use of the situation.”
Just as Lan Lin finished speaking, her son pushed the door open and walked in. As soon as he entered, his nose twitched. He pretended to sniff here and there, then asked Lan Lin,"Mom, shouldn't we have a meeting to criticize Dad?”I asked my son,"Brat, why are you having a meeting to criticize me?"”The son continued to put on an act." Because this room is too smelly. You didn't wash your feet.”I said in surprise,"I washed it!" I just washed it! Why don't I smell anything? No, I have to smell your feet. Did you not wash them?”His son immediately stretched out his foot and said seriously,"Sniff it! Stinky? And I'm telling you, I really didn't wash it! I told you to smell it before you washed it." I put my nose in front of my son's heel, inhaled hard, and shouted,"Aiya! It stinks." His son seemed to have won. He laughed and went to look for Sister Mei Zi. As he walked, he shouted,"Sister, I used the stench to criticize my father. He said that my feet were really smelly.”Mei Zi said,"Is that so? Hurry up and come over to wash it." Otherwise, what should she do if she smoked her mother again?”"My feet only smell on my father, not my grandmother, mother, and sister," his son answered from outside.”Plum asked,"Why only father?"”The son replied,"Because his feet stink more than mine."”Grandma was the first to laugh when she heard her son's answer in her room. I also laughed. Mei Zi and Lan Lin both laughed. Only my son said in a serious manner,"If I don't smoke him, I'll suffer a loss. I smoke him ten times, but it's not as good as him smoking me once! His feet were invincible in this house.”
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