Youth Facing the Future II
Studying hard, the coordinates of youth, is the wings of the future. He held onto it tightly and didn't let it go to waste. Because if something goes wrong,
Life would be like a bird with broken wings, unable to fly anymore. Hold on tightly to the coordinates, because once they disappear, life will be a desolate island.
snow all year round, the sky is frozen with ice. Youth faced the future, and the future was the work of sweat. A future with sacrifices is success. Curling up my body and listening to the illusory hustle and bustle, I will no longer hide in my youth and waste my time. Only the future belongs to me. Studying hard is the true meaning. A song of youth sounded, and the prologue slowly started.
The fourth match, Gentle Breeze and Drizzle
Teacher Shi's office after school in the afternoon
Teacher Shi: (kindly) Tang Lei, I found out that you've grown up today. You must have thought about a lot of things today. Can you tell me what you're thinking today?
Tang Lei: (Looking up at the teacher with tears in her eyes) I feel that I have disappointed my teacher and parents."Love" shouldn't happen at my age.
Ms. Shi: (kindly) Do you know what love is? When children enter puberty, their minds are filled with the lovely her, the charming him, the romantic him, and the considerate her. When they appear in our lives, our first reaction as children is to be overwhelmed and excited. A boy encountered such a situation. For example: In the last year of school, the boy had a crush on a cute girl he knew. They didn't see each other often, nor did he have any thoughts of wanting to see her. It was completely like a dream. He tasted the sweet throbbing of his first love, but he was also deeply bitter. On the other hand, the music that sounded like love made the boys so excited that they couldn't sleep at night. (pause)
The teacher asked, What kind of feeling does a cute girl give him?
Tang Lei shook her head.
Teacher: Do you think a boy would choose to confess to a girl or hide his feelings? Why?
If we were to give our classmates a choice, we would have to choose what we should and what we shouldn't. Let's continue to look at the choices of the boys in the story.
Not long after, he heard that the girl was going to learn vocal music, and the boys wanted to hear her sing. After a few months, the boy's wish was finally fulfilled. It was at a dinner party in the evening. When the cute girl was asked to sing, she had no choice but to do so despite her repeated refusal. The boy waited nervously for the moment to come. The perfect goddess in his heart would sing for him. A gentleman accompanied her with a small piano. After two or three bars of prelude, she began to sing. Sigh! Her singing was so unpleasant that the boys couldn't help but feel sorry for her. When she sang, the boy's worries and confusion turned into sympathy, and then silence. After that, the boy's love for her disappeared and returned to peace and comfort. When the god of love pats you on the shoulder, even those who do not know what poetry is will suddenly become poets. How could such a beautiful feeling disappear when she heard that difficult to hear song?
Tang Lei still shook her head.
Teacher: Yes, the original beauty in the heart seems to be completely from the surface. Therefore, when reality was different from what he imagined, his dream was shattered, and the beauty was gone. This was a typical feeling of first love during puberty. Sweet, impulsive, fascinated, childish, fickle, came and went quickly. Such feelings were often overly beautified and infatuated with the other party's appearance. The reason for this feeling was mainly because of the physiological development needs of puberty. From a biological point of view, when a person enters puberty, a substance called methapramine will be secreted from the brain stem. This substance has a strange effect, which is to make you biased and only see what you like to see. However, the secretion of this drug wasn't permanent. Generally, after 18 months of being together, the secretion of methapramine would gradually decrease. At this moment, the crisis had arrived. The emotions of puberty reflected the biological nature of love.
Although love is a form of love like kinship and friendship, love requires more responsibility than kinship and friendship. At your age, you can't bear this responsibility.
Tang Lei: (Looking at the teacher with tears in her eyes) Actually, I just want to find someone to share some of my thoughts with. My parents are too busy with work and they don't have time to share my happiness and troubles with me. They just ask me how I did in the exam. Should I attend tutoring? Once my grades drop, they'll nervously ask me this and that. They'll always use their hard work to pressure me!
Ms. Shi: (Sincerely) It's not right for me to only care about your grades. I haven't been able to talk to you about your thoughts.
Tang Lei: (Pull yourself together and look at the teacher with pleading eyes) Teacher Shi, will you still recommend me to join the group?
Ms. Shi: (kindly) I believe that you will get out of the current low. In fact, you are not really in love but just looking for someone to talk to. I believe that all of you have always prioritized your studies, because all of you have ideals and beautiful visions for the future.
Tang Lei: (wistfully) Does the teacher really believe me?
Ms. Shi: (kindly) Really, child. It's normal for you to have a good impression of the opposite sex when you enter puberty. You don't have to be too alarmed, and you don't have to blame yourself. It's just that you haven't grown up yet, and it's not time for you to fall in love yet. You don't know what you really want, nor do you know who is more suitable for you, nor do you know what love is. I suggest you bury this beautiful emotion in your heart first. When you grow up, see if you still like "him". If the answer is yes, then you can contact "him" again. Please remember to leave room for choice in your future.
Tang Lei: (relieved) Thank you, teacher.
Ms. Shi: (kindly) Youth is the best time to learn and grow happily. Let's use it all for self-growth and self-accumulation! It's getting late. Dad and Mom are waiting for you to come home for dinner.
Tang Lei: (relieved) Thank you, teacher. I'll go home first.
The fifth round of spring breeze and rain
In the dining room during dinner. Tang Lei returned home listlessly and sat on the chair. Tang Lei was waiting for her parents 'stormy criticism. Strangely, her parents didn't say anything. One was preparing dinner and the other was sitting quietly at the table waiting for everyone to eat together. Tang Lei felt even more uneasy.
Tang Lei's father: (kindly) Tang Lei, you're a big girl now, but in the eyes of your parents, you're still a child who needs protection. We are very afraid that you will be hurt. Not only are we worried now, but we will always be worried about you in the future. Mom and Dad have neglected many of your thoughts because of work. The happy time that should have belonged to you has been moved to other places by Mom and Dad. Can you forgive Mom and Dad's mistakes?
Tang Lei looked at her father quietly. From her father's kind appearance, Tang Lei felt guilty in her father's heart. At the same time, she felt even more guilty. Although she and Yang Huan did not do anything " overboard " and only encouraged each other to speak their hearts, went to the library to read books, and went for a walk together, what made her uncomfortable was that she blamed her parents for being busy and did not tell them what she could have said. She also admitted that she had become rebellious and liked to confide in her friends of the opposite sex during puberty, but these did affect her grades. Tang Lei's tears began to flow down her face. Her father was handing her a tissue.
Tang Lei's father: (kindly) Don't cry, child. Before you make a choice, you have to calmly think about the possible consequences. Take puppy love as an example. If parents and teachers found out about it, they might be anxious all day long. This was because early contact with relationships would affect their studies and cause their academic performance to decline. If they were "dumped" by others, they might have to bear the pain that was unbearable at this age. Some people said that puppy love was a flower that did not bear fruit. Not only that, but puppy love also had a great impact on the study and life of middle school students. Understanding the dangers of puppy love and constantly sounding the alarm was very helpful for teenagers to prevent inappropriate love. It was generally believed that puppy love would harm teenagers 'studies, lives, and physical and mental development in the following ways:
1. Some middle school students who affected their studies and lives mistakenly believed that: " As long as two people are like-minded, falling in love won't affect their studies." Loving each other creates motivation and boosts their learning." These were not objective at all. In fact, puppy lovers often focused on their love and focused on the other party. Their feelings were restrained by the other party. They were all distracted in their studies and their grades were all declining. Although many puppy lovers were very secretive, they were still discovered by parents and teachers in the end. The main reason was that the decline in their grades attracted the attention of parents. Under questioning, they told the truth.
2. Teenagers 'attitudes were still unstable, and it was easy to have conflicts in love. They were psychologically immature, fragile, and had poor tolerance. They were easy to be hurt in the twists and turns of their relationship. Some teenagers doubted their lives because of the frustration of puppy love. They doubted whether there was true love, casting a shadow on their emotional life and affecting their marriage life after adulthood.
3。Puppy love is prone to sexual negligence. Teenagers have a strong desire for the opposite sex. They are easily agitated, unable to control their feelings, and their behavior is easily impulsive. It is easy to ignore the consequences of their actions on a whim, resulting in some deviant behaviors, such as unmarried sex and premarital pregnancy. Once these behaviors appeared, they would make the person involved feel ashamed and afraid. Even if they didn't feel anything at the time, the frustration and inferiority that they would cause in the future could not be described with words. The impact on their emotional life after adulthood was often difficult to make up for. In a survey of sex offenders, it was found that 50% of the first time they committed a sexual offense was between the ages of 15 and 19. 1%, females 71.9%. On the other hand, the sexual sins of teenagers had an undeniable relationship with their future crimes.
4。Puppy love is extremely difficult to succeed. Because of the blindness and immaturity of puppy love, puppy lovers rarely go to the palace of marriage. Parents, school's intervention, the cracks in their relationship, going to school, transferring schools, work, and many other factors caused the unhealthy baby to die halfway. According to Wang Youping's survey of college and high school students, 42.9% of the students with a history of love had already broken off their relationship when the survey was conducted. 30.2% of the students were in a relationship on the surface, but they knew that breaking up was a matter of time. Only 26.9% of them were still in a relationship. Even if puppy love led to marriage, the reliability of this kind of marriage was questionable. According to the research of American social psychologist, in divorce cases, the proportion of men who got married before the age of 23 was the highest, and among them, those who got married at the age of 19 were the most. The stones of other mountains could be used to polish jade. From the current situation of others to their own ending, those who fell in love quickly stopped at the brink of the cliff and made up for it.
Students were expelled for having a puppy love affair, students were dumped when they were pregnant and forced to bring their babies around to work and beg, and there were even some who committed suicide. Are you willing to bear the consequences? Can you afford it? Child, before making a choice, you must think rationally and judge. Try not to be impulsive. Being emotional is the devil. Only in this way can you avoid the trouble and sorrow caused by making a wrong choice.
Tang Lei: (Pounce into Daddy's arms and cry) Daddy
Tang Lei's father: (Dad also cried) Isn't the purpose of parents earning money for their children? However, if parents gave up on accompanying their children to grow up and educate them, making them defective or useless, then what was the use of having a mountain of gold? Mom and Dad have decided to quit part of their jobs. We want to accompany you to grow up happily and healthily, and strive to rely on the four famous universities.
Tang Lei's mother: (She is bringing the dishes over with tears in her eyes.) Child, spring is the best time for small trees and flowers to grow. Youth is the best time for you to grow healthily. In this spring of youth, students are working hard day and night for the upcoming college entrance examination. We can't fall behind. Youth shouldn't have tears. Youth should be about absorbing knowledge and nutrients to grow up healthily and happily. Looking at her parents, Tang Lei smiled. Her smile revealed a feeling of relief. At this time, she understood the mission of youth--youth, health, happiness, growth, and good learning.
Tang Lei: Mom and Dad, I love you.
The sixth scene, the sky cleared after the rain
On the third day after school, Tang Lei asked Yang Huan to take a walk and have a heart-to-heart talk on the school field.
Tang Lei: (Walking side by side with Yang Huan, looking ahead) Yang Huan, how are your preparations for the upcoming college entrance examination?
Yang Huan: (Lowering his head and walking forward) There are still many things to review. I feel that time is very tight now.
Tang Lei: (Turning her head to look at Yang Huan) We misunderstood our parents before. In fact, they care about us very much. It's just that we're too busy to let that love come late. Let's not let our parents 'negligence affect our studies.
Yang Huan: (Turning his head to look at Tang Lei) Teacher You and my parents have talked to me about doing the right thing at the right time. The college entrance examination is the last stop of youth. It was the only and last fair competition in his life. It was the moment when everyone was closest to their dreams. The most important thing in high school was to study. Putting aside love and hobbies, getting into a good university was more important than anything else. No one would care about you except your family. Only you can be responsible for your own future. High school might be your last ivory tower. After you walk out of that school gate, you can never go back. In many people's hearts, the college entrance examination was a youth that could not be returned. It did not matter if it was youth or acne. After all, this was the last competition in his life that did not depend on looks. Then, he had to fight shamelessly for the last time. Because everything would be fine in the future! Look! Face! This was the last time they would compete in knowledge. Their future would depend on their looks. If we don't pay attention to our studies at this time, it would be childish and ignorant. It would be extremely stupid.
Tang Lei: (Nodding in agreement) Teacher Shi said that it is normal to trust and have a good impression of someone. I want to turn my trust and good impression of you into admiration for an outstanding student. Because youth is the best time to learn and grow. We should all spend our time growing up happily. Yang Huan, let me tell you something I created myself: The commoners had to go to university. Take the exam well, or else you'll be the one who built the walls of others in the future. He passed the examination of Gao Fu Shuai and won two generations of official positions. They opened their eyes and began to compete. Youth is the true meaning of hard work. Let us study hard!
They looked at each other and smiled knowingly, and their laughter ran happily along the track to the classroom.
Narrator-The curtain slowly fell, and the green light of youth lit up: They understood the interpretation of youth. Youth was a book that had to be read carefully. Youth is a painting that needs to be painted carefully. In the season of youth, there was selfless love, mellow friendship, the joy of harvest, the gratification of growth, and the bitterness of transformation. Cherish youth, cherish possession, despise obstacles, magnify happiness, and walk on songs. Youth, let us study hard!
Secretary Meng commented," The phenomenon of " puppy love " is not entirely due to the child's fault. Our parents should not mention the sensitive topic of " puppy love ". They are afraid that they will turn pale at the mention of it. The best policy is to learn to face it actively and patiently. The drama also gives suggestions to parents from the side. The purpose of this play is to make the performers realize that youth is for teenagers to absorb the nutrients of knowledge and grow up healthily with a happy mood. Youth's slogan was: Youth, let us study hard!
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