The term " supporting younger brother demon " was a popular term on the Internet. It was the kind of sister who would rather empty her own family to subsidize her younger brother, take care of her younger brother's life, and even take care of her younger brother's children's school, marriage, and children. Help! Brother! Demon! It could be said to be quite appropriate!
She had just learned a term. For the kind of sister who would rather dig out her own small family to subsidize her maternal brother, take care of her maternal brother's life, and even take care of her maternal brother's children's school, marriage, and children, we can call her: Help! Brother! Demon!
Those who can PK with the Demon Fu (Note, PK, not uniform, at most a draw!)）There was only the phoenix man!
Brother Helping Demon (): I only have this one brother!!!!
Phoenix Man (;;`): It wasn't easy for my mother to raise me!!!!
Brother Demon Fu: He's my brother, what can I do?？？？
Phoenix Man: She's my mother, how can I not care?？？？
There was a popular saying on the internet. Most filial piety men had a deep-rooted concept that their mother was especially difficult and unhappy. Now that they had the ability, they had to protect their mother well and accommodate her. In his words, only his mother was the hardest person in the world, and the whole world had to serve her well. A foolish and filial man who had no opinion of his own seemed to not offend either side, but in fact, he did not know how to communicate and mediate. It would only worsen the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It was said on the internet that a foolish filial piety man and a demon who helped his younger brother were a perfect match. The Demon of Helping the Younger Brother was the kind of sister who would rather empty her own family to subsidize her younger brother, take care of her younger brother's life, and even take care of her younger brother's children's school, marriage, and children. Help! Brother! Demon! It could be said to be quite appropriate!
There were many unspoken rules in the marriage market in Zhuxia. Among them, the fact that a girl had a younger brother was one of the many unspoken rules that deducted points.
There were two reasons. On the one hand, it was more likely that the mother's family would leave the property to the son. On the other hand, if the parents 'financial conditions were not good, the younger brother's food and clothing needs when he was young would be borne by his sister.
However, the most terrifying thing was that she accidentally married a brother support demon.
Most of the so-called " younger brother support demons " came from families that favored sons over daughters. Even if they got married and had children, they would devote themselves to their younger brother. From a young age, the adults had instilled in him that he only had one younger brother and that he had to be good to him. After being brainwashed for ten to twenty years, most of them doted on their younger brother.
Their catchphrases were usually:
"I only have one younger brother!!”
"He's my biological brother. What can I do?？？”
"Blood is thicker than water. I have to help him!!!”
"Blood is thicker than water" was actually a word that carried the color of moral kidnapping.
Everyone knew that such a family was a bottomless pit. The people living in this hole were all " vampires " who used family ties to morally kidnap you.
01
In the eyes of the younger brother helpers, her family was her real family, but it was only natural for husband and wife to share their assets." What's wrong with me using my money to let my parents and brothers live a better life? If you object, you are selfish, cold, and heartless!”
A few days ago, a friend told me about his own experience:
"I've been married to my wife for five years, and my life is quite harmonious. There's just one thing that I can't stand. My wife always likes to subsidize her family. Every time she goes back to her family, she has to empty the house before she's satisfied. From household appliances to tea, rice, oil, and salt, she brought them all to her parents.
What made me the angriest was that my mother fell sick last month and needed money urgently, so I quickly sent 50,000 yuan. However, before I could reach the hospital, I received a text message saying that 50,000 yuan had been deducted from my card. I immediately went home to ask my wife. His wife said that her brother was getting married and gave him 50,000 yuan as a betrothal gift.
I was anxious at that time. My mother was still lying in the hospital waiting for the money to see a doctor. Don't you know the severity of the matter? Why didn't you discuss it with me?
However, his wife said righteously,"It's a big deal that your mother is sick, but isn't it a big deal that my brother is getting married? Why should I give it to her and not my brother…"
As a type of 'family terrorism', the brother-supporting demons shared the same values." We are the porters of property. We empty our husband's family and subsidize our family!”
Pay for your younger brother's school! Little brother buying a house, pay up! Younger brother getting married, pay up! Little brother bought a car, pay up! Pay for the baby! Pay for your brother's child's school! He had to pay!
02
Some time ago, there was a piece of news that went viral online: " A young woman who had just taken her wedding photos died late at night. Five words left on her Moments."
The news was about a 28-year-old girl in Hangzhou who was working as a manager at an internet technology company. On May 1st, the girl took a wedding photo. On the 14th, he posted the last message on his Moments: I was confused by the fever, and unfortunately died in the early morning of the next day.
The most eye-catching part of this news was the girl's aunt's words: "My niece's annual salary is more than 200,000 yuan. She's about to get married and buy a house recently. Her parents are farming, so the family put pressure on her brother. They even said that even if you get married, you have to help your brother in the future.”
No girl was born to be a " brother support demon ", just as no one was born with three obedience and four virtues. It was the parents who instilled the concept of " unconditional sacrifice " into their daughters from a young age and the constant nagging of " you have to take good care of your brother for the rest of your life " that turned a normal girl into a demon.
I once saw a story on a forum:
"Ever since I was young, my parents told me that my younger brother is the only bloodline in the family. I have to protect him, treat him well, and provide him with good food and drinks.
I graduated from high school and entered a nursing college. I had a boyfriend. His family background was average, but he treated me well. I was going to work in the south with him after graduation. My parents hid my household register and identity card and asked them to give me 300,000 yuan as a betrothal gift. Otherwise, they wouldn't let me go with him.
I know that my parents want to use the money from selling me to buy a house in the county town for my brother to marry a wife. At that time, his younger brother was only 16 years old and was still in high school.
A year later, they found me a man who was ten years older than me. He was divorced and had no children. He was just an ordinary person, but he was willing to pay 300,000 yuan as a betrothal gift. But later, he still divorced me, the reason being that no man could stand me, a brother support demon.”
There were many " supporting demons " like her, but this was moral kidnapping. Relatives and friends gathered in a circle and turned a deaf ear to your weak resistance. You gave in just because your will wasn't firm.
You couldn't wake up a person who was pretending to be asleep, nor could you pull up a person who wanted to climb into a pit.
"He's your blood brother, you can't just watch him die, right?”He had already tied the sympathy and sense of responsibility of the brother support demons to his brother.
Then, the same drama would repeat itself over and over again, and you would become an unwilling brother support demon. He was a demon who had been kidnapped by morality and could not escape.
I'm Zi Yue, an elder sister.
To me, being an elder sister is like helping a younger brother.
I was born in a province that heavily favored sons over daughters. I was the first child in the family. Unfortunately, I was a daughter.
It was said that after my father found out that he had given birth to a daughter, he immediately wailed.
Since the first child did not live up to expectations, then continue to give birth.
Just like that, my parents had the belief that they would continue to have children until they had a son. They had been working hard to have a son.
In the meantime, I might have sacrificed a few innocent sisters.
Anyway, my parents gave birth to my younger brother, who was 10 years younger than me!
As you can imagine, my childhood was a history of blood and tears.
In this vast world, his younger brother was the most important.
This is the idea that my parents instilled in me and asked me to follow it.
Ever since I was young, I had to serve my younger brother in all aspects.
If there was good food, his younger brother would eat it.
If there's something fun to play with, I'll play with it.
I still have to ensure my brother's safety. If anything happens, I can't avoid a beating.
I remember one time, my brother climbed up a bench by himself. He accidentally tilted the bench and fell on it, crying loudly.
When my parents heard the news, they rushed over. My brother immediately complained,"Sister pushed me!"
"I knew you didn't like your brother!"”
My dad said fiercely,"Even if you kill your brother, you won't have a good life!"”
Wow ~~ I'm simply stunned. My younger brother is lying through his teeth. He's only four or five years old, but he already knows how to read people's expressions and bully the weak.
That time, I played mixed doubles with my parents.
I was covered in rainbow colors, red, orange, yellow, green, cyan, blue, and purple, incomparably dazzling.
Speaking of which, my father is an uncultured person. The way he usually settles problems is violence!
But his violence was also picky.
As long as it's me--
However, he had always been gentle with his younger brother. He didn't even speak loudly, let alone fight.
As for my mom, she beat me up very artfully.
She never berated him, never punched him, she only pinched him!
It was to grab a piece of my flesh, grab it tightly, and then quickly spin it clockwise!
That sour feeling was still unforgettable. Just thinking about it made him shiver.
I was often wrung black and blue.
Of course, my mom never touches my brother.
Her younger brother was a blue-and-white porcelain. She held him in her hands and took good care of him.
I'm a rag. I can use it and throw it away whenever I want.
I grew up in such an environment. It's a miracle that I wasn't suppressed to the point of perversion and was instead lively and cheerful.
Everyone should be able to see that I'm very sunny now.
However, my childhood was indeed quite dark.
I never dared to resist the orders my parents gave me. I did whatever they told me to do.
I am the nanny and the machine at home.
From the age of 10, I started to help the family start a fire, cook, wash the dishes, wash the pots, wash the clothes, and do all kinds of housework. I also had to ensure my brother's safety.
I'm my brother's bodyguard.
For example, if you were walking on the main road, you must look after your younger brother.
Even if I get hit by a car, I have to ensure my brother's safety.
Otherwise, I'll be dead if I go home.
Later, I was admitted to a university. It wasn't a particularly good school, but it was glorious enough among my peers in the village.
My parents said that I'll only pay for school fees and that I'll have to earn my own living expenses.
I had no choice. In order to continue studying, I studied hard to earn a scholarship. I also wrote papers, tutored, distributed flyers, and worked part-time.
In order to save money, I carried boxes of instant noodles back to the dormitory from the convenience store and ate them three times a day.
Because each bag of instant noodles only costs 2 yuan, the food in the canteen is too expensive for me.
What I want to say is that when I eat instant noodles, my roommates will give me food from time to time. I'm not that sensitive. I know that they're not giving alms. They're really good to me.
They would pretend as if nothing had happened and let me eat this and that.
I'm very grateful. To this day, I still remember this classmate relationship.
My computer was assembled second-hand, and my phone was a free gift.
I gritted my teeth and was admitted to graduate school.
When I was a graduate student, I earned more money on the side. Other than tuition fees and living expenses, I still had a surplus.
My parents said that they will give my brother 2,000 yuan every month as his pocket money.
I obediently gave it to him.
I've been working for several years now, but I'm still very frugal.
I know that I can't rely on my parents and can only rely on myself, so I took the initiative to lower my spending.
Most of my clothes come from a certain treasure or go to the mall to buy discounted clothes.
I bought the laptop for 900 yuan three years ago.
My brother wanted to buy a computer too, so I told him that it could be assembled, it was cheap, and the configuration was better than mine.
My younger brother scoffed and looked down on him.
In the end, he bought a fruit notebook with the money I gave my parents for the new year.
My parents are urging me to get married. There would be no dowry, no money, and all the assets in the family would belong to his younger brother.
Alright! As expected, I have no objections.
However, they also said that they were old and needed me to support my younger brother. Even if they got married, they would still give my younger brother 3000 yuan a month for living expenses.
In the future, when my younger brother gets married and buys a house, he will also need my help as his elder sister.
I smiled and didn't say anything.
What was more fun?
There's a family next door who gave birth to two daughters and a younger brother. These two sisters were like the mothers of their younger brother. They had been brainwashed by their family and were especially obedient. They were willing to be exploited by their parents.
They were already married, but they really gave 2000 yuan a month to subsidize their parents 'living expenses and help their younger brother.
I call her Aunt, and she even specially came to my house to have a heart-to-heart talk with me.
Talk about what? It meant that even though your wings had grown, don't forget who raised you. The tree is a thousand feet tall, but don't forget its roots.
I think it's so funny!
Who knows how many needles they had stabbed into my wings, how many scars they had left on my walking legs?
Didn't she know that her two sons-in-law had objections? Are you asking for a divorce?
If you don't squeeze your daughter enough, why do you want my family to squeeze my daughter?
Of course, I know that this is my parents 'idea.
Actually, I have a boyfriend, and we've always been in a good relationship.
However, I never dared to bring him to my house or to my parents.
I'm afraid of losing face.
I'm also worried that my parents will say something overboard to him and scare him away.
Am I not Fan Shengmei?
Which man would be willing to marry Fan Shengmei?
Which man would be willing to marry the burden of a family?
So what if they got married in the future? Aren't you still being squeezed by my parents? If she couldn't raise her head in her in-laws 'house, it would cause discord between husband and wife. As time passed, there would definitely be resentment.
I don't want to be taken away by my original family.
That's why I'm thinking that I should either not get married or break up with my original family.
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