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7 Understand some things, see some people clearly

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One could get to know many people in one's life. People who truly cared about you didn't care about your wealth, but about your current life, whether you were happy or poor. The person who truly cares about you is not your wallet, but your emotions. Because he knows that as long as you are good, he will be good. It was not easy to meet such a person in his lifetime. If you had no money, he would give it to you; if you cried, he would coax you, protect you, and treat you like a treasure. Such a person is the one you should cherish for the rest of your life! No matter when, you must remember: No matter how poor you are, don't betray the people who accompany you. No matter how rich you are, don't forget the people who help you. No matter how tired you are, don't ignore the people who care about you. No matter how busy you are, don't neglect the people who care about you.

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I like this saying very much: We come to this world crying and leave this world amidst the cries of others. The process in the middle is called life. God was very interesting. Cats liked to eat fish, but cats couldn't go into the water. Fish liked to eat earthworms, but fish couldn't go ashore. Life was about having something and losing it at the same time. He chose while giving up. In life, there was no such thing as everything going well. Therefore, he didn't take others seriously because it wasn't worth it. He didn't take himself seriously because he couldn't afford to hurt himself. He didn't take the past seriously because it was meaningless. He didn't take reality seriously because life had to continue! 03

Some things could only be remembered, and some things could only be recalled. No one could do anything about the years that had passed in their lives. Whether it was love, hate, happiness, or sadness, time had turned the page. It was good to be able to see things through, but even if he couldn't, he had to get through it. Don't think that you won't go over just because you can't see it through. You're only afraid of an old heart, not a long road ahead!

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Life was a form of endurance and pressure. Suffering was the original taste of life, and tiredness was the essence of life. No matter how far you went, how high you stood, or how much you got, you could not escape the entanglement of suffering and tiredness. No matter what, you had to learn to support yourself and treat everyone around you with your heart. You had to let your heart relax and your spirit lighten. Forget every passer-by in our lives and fix some things in our impressions. Acquaintance is fate, and knowing each other is a blessing in life. 05

The future was too far away. Cherish the present and enjoy everything that happened in the present. Whether it was pain or joy, it was the most precious memory! A person must have a heart of gratitude, a heart of tolerance, and a heart of reverence.

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In this world, there will always be people who love you, and there will always be people who hate you. There would always be people helping you, and there would always be people stepping on you. It was fine as long as he was indifferent and open-minded. If you can't be perfect in life, then be the real me. If he couldn't do everything, he would just go with the flow. If you were slightly better than others, others would be jealous of you. If you were much more outstanding than others, others would respect you. 07

People who truly cared about you were never busy. People who truly treated you well were always free. Those who claimed to love you but told you that they were busy, tired, and had no time were definitely not people who truly cared about you. The so-called busy and tired were actually excuses. The reason was that he didn't care.

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If one wanted to get something, one had to work hard. A pie falling from the sky could be a trap. There was no such thing as getting something for nothing in this world. Only hard work would be rewarded. Relying on one's own strength was the best way to live. One did not need to have a clear conscience, but at least one had to have a clear conscience. If he didn't want to be envied by others, at least he had to be worthy of himself.

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Life was not easy, so he had to cherish it and cherish everyone he met in his life. It's really a blessing to meet someone who knows you and understands you. Time was just a passer-by, and he was the master. Life is a journey of mountains and rivers. It is a journey of understanding, folding your worries, collecting your happiness, and moving forward with a bright and warm heart. As long as your heart is gentle, you will be able to walk a stable and calm path no matter how far you are.

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Yusheng, be a quiet and sober person! Don't let yourself be confused for the rest of your life. Don't ask about the past, don't be afraid of the future, and treat today well, because no one knows how long the rest of your life will be. Cherish today, cherish the people in front of you, don't wait until it's too late to regret after losing them.

1. The lack of a sense of security is the most common gynecology disease in the world.

2. If you work hard, success or failure is hard to predict. If you don't work hard, you will definitely fail.

3. Don't be sad for me. I have my own beauty. It was about to open.

4. If you don't see me tomorrow. Good morning, good afternoon, good night.

If you want to be loved, you must first make yourself worthy of love.

6. You only know who you love the most when you're drunk. You only know who loves you the most when you're sick.

Too many people overestimate what they lack, but underestimate what they have.

8. Loneliness is every moment, fate is unknowingly, and true love is a lifetime.

Meeting is a kind of beauty, knowing each other is a kind of joy, and knowing each other is a kind of happiness.

10. If two people still care about each other, no matter how difficult it is, they will find a way out for love.

11. A strong heart is often defeated by a simple comfort, and then tears flow down its face.

12. Being overly selfish is selfishness. Completely abandoning me was also treating a living being unfairly.

13. As long as you feel at ease, everything is fine. If there is one person who has not been saved, do not escape by yourself. Love had always been a fleeting moment. It was a chaotic moment, and it was over.

Many people are stubborn in pursuing the path they have chosen, but few are stubborn in pursuing their goals.

The key to a person's elegance is to control their emotions. Using your mouth to hurt others is the most stupid behavior.

17. Being warmed by someone makes me hot, and being cold makes me ice. Forgive me for being too clear about love and hate in this life.

Some people need to spend a lifetime to forget, because there is no beginning, so there is no end.

There must be cracks in life for sunlight to shine in. Only when there were obstacles on the road did one become strong.

20. Liking is a joy that you see for the first time, but love is a joy that you will never get tired of. When concern and companionship became a disturbance, loneliness was salvation.

No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow your progress is, you are ahead of those who have never tried.

We make many choices in life, and living with these choices is the hardest lesson in life.

Sometimes, you want to prove yourself to 10,000 people, but in the end, you only get one person who understands, and that's enough.

There is no winning or losing in life, only whether it is worth it. Anything, any experience, including love and work, was either gained or learned.

You think that the worst thing in life is losing the person you love the most. In fact, the worst thing is losing yourself because you love someone. I'm not afraid of the world, but I'm afraid of you. My rationality and self-control are useless. The heart you hold is my only weakness.

Love and marriage are like picking up seashells. Don't pick up the biggest and most beautiful one. Pick up the one you like the most and don't go to the beach again.

Love is like an hourglass. When the heart is full, the mind is empty. What was it like to get married? He deleted all the songs in the music library, leaving only one song, and set it to play on an infinite loop until the battery ran out.

Dear one, you must live well where my eyes can see, where my ears can hear, and where my hands can touch. As long as you are here, the world will be here.

People with goals are running, people without goals are wandering, because they don't know where to go! Those with goals were grateful, while those without goals were complaining because they felt that the whole world owed them!

Action Brings Response. When you're ready to give up on your dream, tell yourself to hold on for another day, a week, a month, and a year. You will find that the result of refusing to leave is surprising.

No matter how good or bad, happy or frustrated, after this moment, it would all be in the past. Other than yourself, who would care more? It was not a hurdle that one could not overcome, but the obsession in one's heart.

Life is like a long-distance run. We start from the same starting point. Some people run all the way with burning eyes, some people move forward at a constant speed, and some people stop occasionally to look at the flowers on the roadside.

Don't get to the bottom of things, don't be unreasonable, don't try to change others, don't demand others with your own moral standards. He had to learn to understand the strangest things and learn to appreciate the artistic style that was the furthest away from him.

The only you in this world is the miracle I have. Every word you say to me is our secret. Hugging the only you tightly, irredeemable determination, even if the world is against me, I am willing, I am willing to do anything.

The furthest distance in the world is not love or hate, but the familiar person gradually becoming unfamiliar. Some things, no matter how hard you tried, could not be undone. I am also afraid that time will tell the truth and all promises will become lies. Jealousy is the most honest form of recognition. Most of the time, people hated you because you became the kind of person they wanted to be the most. Although they are enemies with you emotionally, they have the same values as you.

True love is not letting go when you feel tired, nor breaking up when you feel unsuitable. It is wanting to be together even if you are tired. Even if you are unsuitable, you want to fight for it. Tired is because you care, unsuitable is because you don't love enough. True love doesn't have so many excuses.

How many years will it take for us to put away our surging emotions, become silent and calm, bid farewell to the beauty that is full of teasing, bid farewell to the fragile exquisiteness, and bid farewell to the useless sensitivity? He would no longer be overly anxious when he saw the slightest sign of trouble. Instead, he would become strong and sturdy, even if he was mistaken for stubbornness.

I thought that love could overcome everything, but who knew that sometimes she was powerless. I thought that love could fill the regrets of life, but it was love that created more regrets. The ups and downs of a love story kept repeating themselves. If it were anyone else, the sky wouldn't be blue. 1. It's not the pressure that defeats you, but the way you bear the pressure.

2. You can't take care of everyone's feelings. You'll only make yourself feel bad.

3. The loved one may not know that his goodnight is comparable to the stars in the sky.

4. We always comfort others like wise men and torture ourselves like fools.

5. When you don't love him, he is just a bunch of conditions. When you love him, he is just a name.

6. Some precious moments in life actually come from insignificant things.

7. The heart is slightly moved, but the feelings are far away. Things are wrong, people are wrong, everything is wrong, the past can not be recalled.

8. Memories will warm your body from the inside, and at the same time, cut your body violently from the inside.

9. When you are happy, you listen to the melody. When you are sad, you listen to the song and understand the lyrics.

When you are unhappy, take a deep breath. It is just a bad day, not a bad life.

Life is like a road, you need patience. As they walked, they might be able to walk out of the bustling scenery amidst the desolation.

12. Learn to laugh it off, treat it with aloofness, know how to endure, know how to forgive, and let yourself grow in tolerance.

Living and dreaming are two ways of reading the same book. Reading in order is living, and casually flipping through is dreaming.

One of the greatest bravery in life is the ability to maintain trust and love after experiencing deception and hurt. A person can fail many times, but as long as he doesn't start blaming others, he isn't a failure.

Realizing your dream is to constantly explore your heart and express your true self in life.

Mom will also miss Mom, Dad will also grow old, and even the strongest person will be weak and helpless. We must seize the time to love them.

No matter who you get along with, don't be so enthusiastic that the other party feels that you can't live without him. If you love really, don't love too deeply.

The root of our pain is often that we overestimate our position in the hearts of others. Once there is a gap, pain will arise.

Looking up at the sky, it was still the same, but under the same sky, we couldn't find the way.

The only thing I could hear in the silence was the words I couldn't say. I love you. I've always loved you, and I'll always love you.

Jealousy was a form of envy in itself. Slander was a form of admiration in itself. Therefore, you should be happy that someone is jealous and slandering you.

For a moment, because of a person's words, it was as if a basin of cold water had been poured on you. With a swoosh, you felt cold from head to toe.

One day, you think of someone for no reason. She once made you look forward to tomorrow, but she didn't appear in your tomorrow at all. Selfish, petty, jealous, these are the mentality that every woman has. So, don't feel ashamed. You should know when to stop.

If you argue like a married couple, talk like a friend, flirt like a first love, and protect each other like a brother and sister, then you are destined to be together.

I'm the main character in my movie. If you're willing to cooperate, I'll count you in. If you don't want to, I'll write you to death.

In fact, everyone knew what they wanted, but not everyone had the courage to express it. Gradually, he realized how powerful it was to be true to one's words!

The most disgusting thing in the world is when you see a person's hypocritical side, but others don't. They think that he is as good as he looks.

Dreams are held too high, out of reach, and can only be treasured. It had aged for a long time, turned moldy, and changed its taste. With a legitimate reason not to touch it, he could continue to put it on the shelf with a clear conscience.

31. Understand one thing and grow up. After seeing one thing clearly, he was enlightened. Seeing through one thing, he became rational. After seeing through one thing, he had matured. Seeing through something was the end. She had let go of one thing.

32. If you are a little proactive, then forget it if others ignore you. It was fine if others didn't notice that he cared a little. Why use sincerity to exchange for sadness, and finally only leave a cold heart; Why should he use attention to take back his indifference? In the end, he could only ignore it.

33. It's not the person who hurt you that makes you grow, but your reflection on being hurt that makes you grow. Therefore, there was no need to pretend to be magnanimous and thank the people who hurt you. A clear distinction between love and hate was a living life. At this age, no one wanted to please anyone anymore. They would be with whoever they were comfortable with, including their friends. When they were tired, they would hide far away. He would rather be lonely than go against his heart. He would rather have regrets than make do with it.

Regardless of whether you understand this world or not, this world will not give in to you. Even if you fall endlessly to the bottom of the valley, even if you feel that you are innocent and wronged, no one can truly understand your thoughts.

Have you ever loved someone far away? He never let you despair. It was your courage and strength to continue living. He would always be young, beautiful, and radiant. He would always be there, as if he was a believer.

I found that many people's disappointment was because they had forgotten that they had violated their aspirations when they were young. They thought that they were experienced, that they were smart, that they were childish in the past, but they finally saw through it and wanted to see through it…They became the kind of person they hated the most when they were young.

38. No matter how well you do, there will be people pointing fingers. Even if you are a mess, you can still hear the hymn. There was no need to be entangled in the judgment of the outside world, no need to fall into the eyes of others, no need to distort oneself in order to please the world. Only you can save yourself.

In the waiting posture, people looked different. And I would rather you could sit on a bench with a smile, peeling an orange, humming a tune, without worrying, without looking back and forth. Because you knew that the train you were waiting for would definitely come, even if it was full of dust and dust, even if the mountains were high and the rivers were long.

A long, long time ago, the people around me always said that they would accompany me for a lifetime, but how many people can do it? I won't believe this kind of words again. I made such a beautiful promise but didn't fulfill it. I don't know if I should finish this journey alone.

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