The progress of high school was very fast. It seemed that the mid-term exams had just passed and the final exams were coming. The pressure was also increasing, and the school began to organize lectures on puberty. Relieve the pressure on the children now, because there were already two children with depression in the school and Han Fei who jumped off a building. The school attached great importance to this.
Everyone gathered in the stadium, and the students stood around.
After the psychologist finished the first part of the speech, he said,"Today, we have prepared a game for everyone. It was divided into three parts. Everyone, relax. The rules are simple. Split into groups and form a circle."
"The first game is called Knowing Yourself. Say your name and your parents 'name loudly. Perhaps everyone would think that this game was childish, but you would find that the students around you might have different reactions. Please don't interrupt them or try to comfort them. They need to vent.”
It had to be said that this psychologist was quite something.
"Come, come, Lei 'er. Tao Zi, Old Gu, Yang Yang, hey hey, you catfish spirit!”Fang Yifan called out to his companions and Wang Yidi, who was alone.
"You invited me!" Because Wang Yidi liked to talk too much, she couldn't keep her words, and no one was willing to make friends with her.
"Come, let me go first!" "My name is Fang Yifan, the son of Tong Wenjie and Fang Yuan." Next!"
"My name is Ji Yangyang, my mother is Liu Jing, and my father is Ji Shengli!”Ji Yangyang completed it smoothly, followed by Tao Zi.
"My name is Huang Zhitao!" Her emotions were a little abnormal."My dad's name is…Huang Wenxin, and my mom's name is Tao Yue.”
The way she avoided his gaze and the sense of strangeness did make her seem different. However, she looked at Gu Shaoyun worriedly.
"My name is Gu Shaoyun!" " I have an elder sister called Gu Jia," Gu Shaoyun said lightly." I won't talk about my parents anymore."”
Everyone's heart trembled. They did not expect Gu Shaoyun to be the most complicated one. Huang Zhitao felt relieved when she heard him speak so calmly.
"My…parents are divorced!" The next young man was not so strong. He did not even introduce himself.
After one round, Qiao Yingzi was the only one left."My dad is called Qiao Weidong, and my mom is called Song Qian.”
"Her parents are divorced too!" Fang Yifan added another stab. Qiao Yingzi could no longer hide her desire to stab someone. Fang Yifan was also helping her vent the depression in her heart.
After the stadium calmed down, the psychologist continued,""Next is the second game. Hug your companions on both sides. We call it Hug therapy. It lowers blood pressure, reduces anxiety, and soothes emotions.”
Hugging each other was indeed a good way to soothe their emotions. However, when the two of them hugged each other tightly, they seemed unwilling to separate at that moment.
Huang Zhitao trembled slightly, her heart was not calm. At that moment, she felt an unprecedented peace of mind. All her impetuousness and worries were gone.
If this moment could last forever, how good would that be?
As the psychological activity unfolded, the psychologist beside him also analyzed it.
"That student's name is Fang Yifan, right? He could easily tell us about his family in the first segment. It's obvious that he has a happy family. However, in the second segment, he only needed a light hug before he bounced away. As the saying goes, what is lacking is supplemented. He had already received a lot of love, so the response to the kindness released by the outside world was not that strong.”
Teacher Li Meng and Teacher Pan Shuai were deep in thought."What about Gu Shaoyun?"
The psychologist said," This child is willing to mention his parents and only mentioned his sister. Obviously, his family is not complete, but he seems very mature." This meant that he was very strong. He must have experienced things that his peers had never experienced. He was full of distance from the goodwill of the outside world, but he clearly had a clear boundary with his friends. Among those people, only that girl, Huang Zhitao, should be his friend. He wasn't on guard and had a clear sense of distance from others.”
Pan Shuai nodded." That's right. Shaoyun doesn't like to talk." However, he had experienced many large-scale competitions, so his mental strength was unquestionable.”
"Yes!" The psychologist nodded." Every child has their own unique personality. Their situation is also strange. Therefore, the guidance for them could not be simple. Fang Yifan and Gu Shaoyun were two extremes, but they were both developing in a good direction, so it was not a problem. Look at the girl called Huang Zhitao.”
"Although she can say her parents 'names calmly, her gaze is evasive and she's even thinking. It's a strange feeling. Perhaps her parents were not around or there were other reasons. In short, her family was not very complete.”
"Yes, her parents are overseas. Her uncle raised her!”Teacher Li Meng replied on Teacher Pan's behalf.
"This is very normal!" "She has a clear limit to her kindness to the outside world," said the psychologist. She was very similar to Gu Shaoyun, but she obviously had more friends. The wall in her heart was not as high. This is not a big problem."
"The more complicated ones are those who can't tell their parents 'names, have broken families, and are divorced. The damage to their original family may accompany them for the rest of their lives…"
The effect of this psychological lecture was indeed very obvious.
The third segment was a speech session, which required the parents to attend together. It was not today, but the weekend. Gu Shaoyun came to the office because the class teacher called him.
"Teacher, what's wrong?"
"I've contacted your sister about this conference. She's busy with work and doesn't have time to come." Why don't you have a chat with the teacher?”
"Uh, no need!" " I've studied psychology on my own," Gu Shaoyun said with a smile." I'm mentally healthy and don't feel any stress."”
"You child!" Although Teacher Li Meng was strict, most of her aura was fake. If she was too easy to get along with, the students would not be afraid of her, and it would be even harder to manage."Chatting is a psychological problem. It's not like you have a problem. Don't give yourself too much pressure."
"I'm alright, I don't feel any pressure," Gu Shaoyun said with a smile.”
Since Gu Shaoyun insisted, Teacher Li Meng didn't say anything. She just advised him.
After school in the afternoon, the sky turned dark early in winter. There was no longer any evening self-study. Everyone went home together, but this time, they seemed to be divided into two groups. One group of boys and one group of girls.
"What's going on?" Gu Shaoyun glanced at Qiao Yingzi behind him.
"Don't mention it!" " Isn't this hugging therapy?" Fang Yifan said helplessly." I went home to help Yingzi relieve her pain. In the end…I was bumped into by the parents of two families. This morning, we had a three-hall hearing…"
It turned out that after the lecture, Fang Yifan and QiaoYingZi went home together. Fang Yifan saw that YingZi was not very happy, and YingZi admitted that her parents 'divorce had a great impact on her. Fang Yifan comforted Yingzi, but he didn't expect Yingzi to cry even harder. Fang Yifan borrowed Yingzi's shoulder, and Yingzi cried. The result was blocked by her parents.
For this reason, Song Qian began a plan to send Yingzi to and from school. She sent her daughter to school in the morning, afraid that her daughter would be taken away by a wolf.
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