The second year of the reform in 2017 was also the first year for the new recruits to go to the next company. This year, the number of new recruits in the next company was too small. We taught them the duties of soldiers and sentries. In the past, it was always two to one, but now it has become two to one.
This year's Spring Festival Gala was particularly bleak. Last year's Spring Festival Gala was watched by the entire squadron, but this year, no one wanted to watch it. Later, the instructor's wife saw that I was not bad, so she introduced me to a Yunnan girl.
I looked at her silently, my heart unmoved.
On the other side, she stuffed the bread into her mouth and took big bites. During her pregnancy, she had almost turned herself into a glutton, forcing herself to eat more so that the child would grow stronger. Looking out from the hotel, he could see the children who had just finished school in the evening. A girl with a ponytail and a backpack was running behind a group of boys. The setting sun cast a long shadow on them. Laughter could be heard, and Yi Mo's eyes gradually became moist. Looking at them, she felt as if she was looking at her past self, as if a lifetime had passed.
Not only did I sigh, but she was once a little girl who was close to happiness. After all, she had a father, mother, brother, and sister who loved her dearly. And I'm alone...
"Look upstairs, there are so many pigeons. They're so beautiful!”
The children downstairs suddenly raised their heads and looked in her direction.
It turned out that the bread crumbs in her hand had fallen on the balcony railing, attracting a flock of pigeons to peck at them. She suddenly laughed, giggled like a pigeon, and gave them the bread in her hand. Behind her, I also put down my phone to look at her. At that moment, we seemed to have returned to a year ago. She was looking at the pigeon while he was looking at her.
The students in class looked at her and pointed at her. She was dressed in white and was holding her stomach. Pigeons circled around her, looking very beautiful.
Behind her was a rose-colored sky, as if it had been painted with a turkish blue brush, with a hint of carmine. It was the scenery I hoped to see in my dreams: flowers blooming on the road, clouds drooping at dusk, tired birds returning late.
However, the children did not understand why the girl who was smiling just now suddenly cried. And I, who was behind her, had already left this place.
Because she knew very well what she had done, and also knew very well what she had done wrong, she wrote a sentence she liked very much to me as a parting:
Ifinthemountainsawayfromyou，
Iwillbeback，throughmattedjungle，
Intoalark，backtoyourside.
If I leave you in the mountains,
I want to come back, through the tangled jungle,
Turn into a hundred spirits and return to your side.
Iftheroamingthedriftapartyou，
Iwillcomeback，acrossrunrampantwaves，
Becameaseagull，backtoyourside.
If I drift away from you on the sea,
I want to come back, across the wild waves,
Turn into a seagull and come back to you.
IfIgetlostinthegrassland，
Iwanttogetyourfootprintsandturnsintothemiludeer.
Mountainstravel，gobacktoyourside.
If I were lost in the grasslands,
I want to follow your footsteps and become an elk,
I've traveled thousands of mountains and rivers to return to your side.
Butdear，
Ijustisin，
Takeyourhandsawayfromyou，
So，Icanonlysaytoyou，
Mayyourlife，Iwillneverforget.
But dear,
But I'm here
I left you when I held your hand,
So, I can only say to you,
May you forget me forever in this life.
......
The leaves have fallen, and I know that soon spring will return, and it will no longer be my season.
After that, although I felt a little disappointed and returned the golden belt she gave me, I was more happy and relieved. Unfortunately, people are complicated and changeable. After I was happy, I felt more lonely. I couldn't help but think of a poem:
No one stands with me at dusk, no one asks me if the porridge is warm,
No one to put out the lamp with me, no one to read with me for half my life.
It's late at night with no one to accompany me, no one to share wine with me.
No one wiped away my tears, no one dreamed of my future.
No one to accompany me to look at the stars, no one to wake me up, my tea is cold.
Because of loneliness, I couldn't help but complain. Unfortunately, there was no life without suffering. I browsed to a website without any objections and wrote:
He often heard people complain and even criticize Taoist priests, saying, Taoism had already declined to this point and was still declining day by day, being suppressed by other religions everywhere. However, the Taoist priests still did things their own way and stuck to the rules. They shelved the essence of Taoism and kept it a secret, causing it to face the danger of being lost. They did not take it seriously and did not feel any sense of urgency. How could he live up to the teachings of the Ancestral Master? How could he face the Chinese sages? How could he face his descendants?
In fact, those who had such thoughts had a high sense of national responsibility. They had a strong heart and were worthy of respect. However, they did not understand Taoism.
The so-called decline of Taoism was just what they thought. In reality, it was not the case.
People in the mortal world would inevitably judge Taoism by the standards of the mortal world. After all, Taoism did not have magnificent temples, wealthy virtues, or believers all over the world. Some of them were accompanied by simple meals every day. They went in and out alone. Their bodies were emaciated and their lives were destitute, but they were still as cold as ice and narcissistic. There was no sense of existence in the world. Many things that were originally Taoist became symbols of other religions in the hearts of the people. Many people only knew about other religions and did not know about them. From this point of view, it really seems to be declining.
However, those who understood Taoism would not think so.
Firstly, Taoism was not a religion. It was just a way of life passed down by the ancestors in ancient times. Because he was different from everyone, and not known to everyone, he was mysterious and unpredictable, and was regarded as a religion by the world.
2. Taoism, since ancient times, had followed the elite path, not the mass path. People who believed in the Dao were only known to a very small area, and their inheritances were extremely secretive and rare. It was only when Celestial Master Zu started preaching that Taoism began to expand. However, they still followed the teachings of their ancestors from generation to generation and were extremely strict in accepting disciples. It was far from what ordinary people could hear.
Third, Taoism pays attention to fate. Even if he met the criteria to be accepted as a disciple, he would not force it if fate had not arrived.
Therefore, Taoism never pursued scale as its goal, nor did it preach for the sake of preaching. Moreover, Taoist priests had always been cold and aloof. They would not bow and kneel, nor would they waste their breath, nor would they be ashamed to bewitch others. Therefore, there were few who actively preached, and there was no coercion or temptation to make people enter the religion out of fear of evil consequences, escape from guilt, comfort themselves, or pursue fame and fortune.
Someone asked: The number of people who worship is decreasing day by day, but there is no worry about losing the family?
Answer: No.
The profound Tao technique was originally passed down by the ancestor to save the world. However, the number increases or decreases, and all laws are subject to fate. Moreover, there were two differences between Taoism and other religions:
Firstly, the Tao exhausted the principles of heaven and earth and seized the opportunity of creation. The person he taught was indeed able to benefit the common people. If it is not passed on to people, it will inevitably leave endless disasters. Therefore, there is a strict discipline, in order to better quality than quantity.
Secondly, since it was passed down from the ancestor, with the ancestor's divine power, as long as it was lost, it would not be forever lost. When the opportunity was ripe, the patriarch would naturally pass it on. Therefore, as long as you stick to your duty, you don't have to worry.
Rare treasures must be rare, only then would bricks and rubble cover the sky.
Worry about the country, worry about the people, worry about the country, not in the position of empty sorrow.
Do your best to do your best, keep your duty and be noble!
Some netizens replied,
Indeed, the author was right. Many dojos were relatively poor and skinny. They didn't charge anyone to enter the dojos and didn't care whether they donated or not. However, some of the Taoist priests were pulling down their erhu and chanting scriptures. They all had a calm and composed posture! On the contrary, most of the monks in Buddhism asked for tickets before entering. They charged exorbitant fees under various pretexts, and the monks were as fat as pigs! From then on, I began to worship the Three Pure Ones. The Daoist name is the Heavenly Lord of Blessings, not the Heavenly Lord of Blessings. It's not like Buddhism where you can add Namo or not at will. I hope you know that the Heavenly Lord of Blessings…
Buddhism was rampant in the prosperous world, Taoism was hidden in the mountains alone, Bodhisattvas did not care about things in troubled times, and Laojun carried a sword to save the vicissitudes of life...
Taoism taught people to be a person, to eat for the sake of heaven, to love the country and family, to be loyal and righteous, and to carry out justice for heaven.
Buddhism teaches you to be a grandson, obey orders, not fight back when you are beaten, and not talk back when you are scolded. That's why China was massacred by the Japanese like they were crushing persimmons.
I don't know if I'm right. If you like it, let more people know that Taoism is the religion of the Han people, not Buddhism of India...
On the contrary, I feel that Buddhism has really changed. There are very few truly accomplished monks. There are many people who have an undeserved reputation. There are many kinds of commercial propaganda like Shaolin. On the contrary, Taoism is willing to come out and stick to the Tao heart.
Firstly, religion was not a myth. You don't have faith, so your understanding of this is incorrect. Our Lord Jesus was resurrected on the Cross, wearing the Crown of Thorns and the Shroud of Turin. You call this a myth? Do you know how many witnesses were there when the Lord Jesus was resurrected? Who gave you the right to call this a legend?
In our country, it's not called resurrection, it's called moving corpses! In a place like Europe, where myths and legends were treated as history and cultural relics were forged, there were actually people who treated their myths as facts. It was said that many people had seen Nüwa mending the sky with their own eyes. When the monkey wreaked havoc in the Heavenly Palace, many heavenly soldiers and generals were witnesses.
......
Of course, there were also people who ridiculed the Taoist priest, saying,"Believe it if you want. If you don't believe it, get lost. Don't delay my cultivation."
Buddhism: Everyone, come to offer incense. Add more incense money. Five hundred yuan is not too little, and fifty thousand yuan is not too much.
Most of the famous people in history were related to Taoism! To quote a modern saying, Daoists were all-rounded talents who cultivated both arts and science! He is able to write and use martial arts. He knows astronomy and geography.
The root of the Chinese culture was Taoism. It cultivated one's moral character and helped the world. It strictly adhered to one's heart and did not play to the gallery.
Taoism said that one's fate was up to oneself and not the heavens, while Buddhism said that karma was reincarnation. To put it simply, Taoism taught people to work hard, while Buddhism taught people to be good. However, most of them had now become tools to pretend to be gods and ghosts to accumulate wealth.
You're wrong. Taoism is tolerant of all things. Monks who don't believe in Buddhism are all different. The prodigal son had to pay a price for returning to his former glory. Buddhism told you to admit your mistakes, and if you admitted it, then you were a good person. Buddhism never taught you to be good, only to not resist. Anyway, everyone had different views. In fact, Taoism and Taoism are two different things. Unfortunately, I don't believe in Buddhism. I remember Taoism once shouted: My fate is up to me, not the heavens! In today's society, whether it was to marry, have children, or work, one had to put in 1,000 percent of their energy to work hard. However, Buddhism talked about the afterlife. Who knew what the afterlife was like and what reincarnation was. Buddha had only grasped the psychological phenomenon of people... Buddhism tells you to admit your mistakes. If you admit it, then you are a good person. I don't agree with this sentence. What is a good person and a bad person? What is right and what is wrong?
The Buddha often said,"I won't go to hell." who will
Perhaps in the Buddha's view, saving sentient beings was the desire of all Buddhas (not the desire of ordinary people)--to be precise, it was the great wish force. All Buddhas had a quiet heart and regarded all sentient beings as their own children. When their children suffered, their parents naturally had to save them. They could appear in the Buddha's body. The sentient beings in hell could not see because of their own karma. They had no choice but to incarnate into the image of the sentient beings in hell. On the surface, they suffered together. After they had a common language, they could educate the sentient beings in hell. Only the Buddhas and Tathagata are willing to show themselves in the evil world of the five turbils. This is the spirit of Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva. If I don't enter hell, who will?
Hell was the most bitter. If I don't help these suffering beings, who will? The more difficult a place was, the more he had to go to this place to teach and help everyone. As long as these suffering sentient beings were willing to accept it, Buddha and Bodhisattva would come. If he refused to accept it, even if the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas wanted to help, they could not do anything. To be able to believe, understand, and learn, Buddhas and Bodhisattvas must have appeared in this world.
Unfortunately, where was hell? Had it entered? How did he enter? Who saw him?
After reading and thinking about it, I couldn't help but wonder why I was such a failure in my personal relationship. Extreme Failure:
The first woman had done it in school. We were worried that the truth would be exposed and we dropped out of school one after another. We wanted to find a place, but for various reasons, we didn't continue to contact each other. It was only when I saw the news in the army that I found out that she had fallen to the point of being someone else's mistress. She was with that fat and old man every day, and even the child in her stomach was aborted less than three months after she dropped out of school. Later, when I questioned her, she calmly said,"Father?" You're not even my husband, yet you're talking to me about my father?! You're just my first 'man'…What I want is a 100-square-meter mansion with top-quality marble tiles, Italian imported furniture, German imported kitchen utensils, French bedding, custom-made dining tables and chairs, and bathroom facilities that match my preferences.
Why does your carefully designed blueprint look so stupid? It looked more like a prototype house than a house.
I know that you like to add two spoonfuls of sugar to your coffee, I know that you like to start reading the newspaper from the art section, I know that you like rainy days, I know that you like to eat bread, I know that you hate rock music, I know that you have a lot of trivialities, but you didn't tell me these personally. I slowly discovered them after following you.
I said this to your reticence.
I often feel that the way you treat me is no different from a stranger.
This was the first and only time I heard her 'complain' about me. Other days, I always saw her smiling.
I knew that she accepted everything I had, she compromised with my demands, and I repaid her with something.
I really don't know. Because I never cared about her, I never paid attention to her every move. I put down my phone silently and stared at the sun in the sky.
I remember that I once said that she was being unreasonable, so she stopped being unreasonable. She no longer asked questions or made phone calls. She endured the depression and sadness caused by her uneasiness and convinced herself to compromise quietly like before. This way, she would change her mind. This way, she wouldn't even lose her back view.
Perhaps she found out that someone didn't love her and wanted to leave. Anything she said would be an excuse. A friend of mine told her this the other day, and it was confirmed in the end.
......
After she said that, she cried. She cried heartbreakingly. That day, she told me that she was going to get married. Her future husband was a black man because that old, ugly, and fat man abandoned her.
The second woman was introduced to me by someone in the army. Although she had Guo Shuang's shadow on her, I had to say that I might have seen her shadow. Although she and her cousin had eaten the forbidden fruit, she could not forgive herself. In the end, she left sadly. I admit that she's her substitute. In the end, I'll just have to make do with how I want to live!
However, after a year, I gradually developed the habits that I had when I was with her. I had perfectly " inherited " her habits. She loved to read romance novels, and I was addicted to them. She likes duck, so I often eat beer duck
I even changed my taste in chasing stars.
This year, I stopped following Zhang Jie, Li Yifeng, Lin Junjie, and Mayday's songs because I changed a celebrity and a song. I saw some similarities in Xuan Master Mi Jin. He was autistic, depressed, and bullied…After going through the darkness, his song, Loser, was deeply engraved in my mind. In order to remember it, I even wrote it down in my phone's reminder:
Loser-ー-Lyric translation and Roman transliteration
Mystic Master Yonezu
I
I
itsumodoorinotourihitorikonnahibimohayakorikori
I dream of you (I can't go anywhere for a long time, so I have a dream to say good night)
もうどこにもいけやしないのにゆめみておやすみ
moudokonimoikeyashinainoniyumemiteoyasumi
In the wind, in the night, we are full (We always feel so sick of stupid nights like this)
いつでもぼくらはこんなふうにぼんくらなよるにあきあき
itsudemobokurahakonnakazenibonkuranayoruniakiaki
Ma ta ri ri
またおどりおどりだすあしたにであうためにさよなら
mataodoriodoridasuashitanideautamenisayonara
Step back to (Wandering around and finally arriving here, where is the paradise?)
あるきまわってやっとついたここはどうだらくえんか?
arukimawatsuteyattotsuitakokohadoudarakuenka?
Now āāā
いまとなっちゃもうわからない
imatonatchamouwakaranai
The result of four and a half centuries is out
The fourth is to be found in the sky.
shihanseikinokekkadekitaaoikaonosu-pa-suta-ga
I wait for you (I wait with an empty stomach)
おなかすかしてはまってる
oharasukashitehamatsuteru
From afar, I'm barking at you.(I 'maLOSER. It doesn't matter if you bark in the dark.)
アイムアルーザーあいむあるーざーどうせだったらとおぼえだっていいだろう
aimuaru-za-dousedattaratooboeedatteiidarou
もう一回もう一回行こうぜ仆らの声(再一次再一次前进吧我们的声音)
もういっかいもういっかいいこうぜぼくらのこえ
mouikkaimouikkaiikouzebokuranokoe
I've been hearing it since a long time ago
アイムアルーザーあいむあるーざーずっとまえからきこえてた
aimuaru-za-zuttozenkarakikoeteta
The sound of itsuka pokétto nikshita (The sound hidden in my pocket that day)
いつかポケットぽけっとにかくしたこえが
itsukapokettonikakushitakoega
ああだのこうだの知ったもんか幸先の空は悪天候(啊啊说这说那的早就知道了嘛显露吉兆的天空却是坏天气)
ああだのこうだのしったもんかさいさきのそらはあくてんこう
aadanokoudanoshitsutamonkasaisakinosorahaakutenkou
ほら窓から覗いた摩天楼からすりゃ尘のよう(你瞧从窗户看出去的高楼大厦从这看来像罩着灰尘一样)
ほらまどからのぞいたまてんろうからすりゃちりのよう
horamadokaranozoitamatenroukarasuryachirinoyou
The middle finger stands on the man of the past.(Ian and Curtis are people of the past. It's no use even if you give them the middle finger)
イアンいあんもカートかーともむかしのひとよなかゆびたててもしょうがないの
ianmoka-tomomukashinoninyonakayubitatetemoshouganaino
The expression of today's victory (This is the homework that must be done in order to return to victory. It's really a happy expression)
いまかちあがるためのおべんきょうほがらかなひょうじょう
imakachiagarutamenoobenkyouhogarakanahyoujou
Dumby, I see you, Dumby, I'm laughing, Dumby (The fools look at the dancing fools, and we're the fools who laughed at them from the beginning)
おどるあほにみるあほわれらそれをはたからわらうあほ
odoruahonimiruahowarerasorewohajikarawarauaho
The self-consciousness of
デカイでかいじいしきかかえこんではもうまもう
dekaijiishikidaekondehamoumamou
すり减って残る酸っぱい葡萄(削减后剩下的则是酸葡萄心态)
すりへってのこるすっぱいぶどう
surihetsutenokorusutsupaibudou
Knee-hugging
ひざかかえてもなんもねえほらながいまえがみでまえがみえねえ
hizadaetemonanmoneehoranagaimaegamidemaegamienee
Laughing
わらっちまうねパッとぱっとわきたって
waratsuchimaunepatsutowakitatsute
Transmigration (Again disappearing without a trace, repeating this cycle)
フワッとふわっときえちゃえるこんなりんね
fuwatsutokiechaerukonnarinne
Love āāāāāāā (If you want to be loved, just say it out loud, just think about how to let people understand)
あいされたいならそういおうぜおもってるだけじゃつたわらないね
aisaretainarasouiouzeomotsuterudakejatsutawaranaine
Forever a lady, her hand to the heaven, far away
えいえんのしゅくじょもそっぽむいててんごくはとおくむこうのほうへ
eiennoshukujomosoppomuitetengokuhatookumukounohouhe
ああわかってるって深く転がる俺は负け犬(啊啊我知道啦跌得好深的我不过是头败犬)
ああわかってるってふかくころがるおれはまけいぬ
aawakatteruttefukakukorogaruorehamakeinu
ただどこでもいいから远くへ行きたいんだそれだけなんだ(管他哪里都好我只想远走高飞就只是这样而已啊)
ただどこでもいいからとおくへいきたいんだそれだけなんだ
tadadokodemoiikaratookuheikitaindasoredakenanda
Ears are far away, but now the sound is heard.(Raise your ears, don't let the sound from afar escape)
みみをすませどおくでいまひびきだしたおとをのがすな
mimiwosumasetookudeimahibikidashitaotowonogasuna
Breathe properly (adjust your breathing)
こきゅうをととのえて
kokyuuwototonoete
When I come out, I'll meet you again. The color of gold.(I'll definitely meet the golden cordiolite someday)
いつかはであえるはずのこがねのいろしたアイオあいおライトらいとを
itsukahadeaeruhazunoougonnoshokushitaaioraitowo
(When the time comes, you must hold on tight and don't let go again)
きっとつかんではなすな
kittotsukandehanasuna
A?māāārāāna na āna āāāāāāāi (I 'maLOSTER since I have nothing, then it doesn't matter what happens)
アイムアルーザーあいむあるーざーなんもないならどうなったっていいだろう
aimuaru-za-nanmonainaradounattatteiidarou
うだうだしてフラフラしていちゃ今に灰左様なら(放声高歌身子就要变得轻飘飘之前成灰永别)
うだうだしてフラフラふらふらしていちゃいまにはいさようなら
udaudashitefurafurashiteichaimanihaisayounara
I'm praying that there will be such a day.
アイムアルーザーあいむあるーざーきっといつかってねがうまま
aimuaru-za-kittoitsukattenegaumama
Enter the palace of the gods (Go forward and go deeper into the time of injury)
すすめロスろすタイムたいむのそのまたおくへいけ
susumerosutaimunosonomatao
Maybe this is my disaster. I've decided to become a counselor. So I found all the books on psychology in the library and then went to ask the class monitor who had already taken the exam. First, I understood the conditions for applying and the future prospects:
First, what conditions do I need to meet to apply for a counselor
1. National Professional Qualification Level 1 Counselor
Possess a Ph. D. in psychology, education, and medicine. Have received a formal training as a psychological counselor to reach the required standard number of hours. Have obtained a graduation certificate and have been engaged in psychological consulting work for three years.
He has a master's degree and obtained the second-level professional qualification certificate of psychological counselor. He has been engaged in psychological counselor work for three consecutive years. He has reached the specified standard class hours after the first-level formal training of psychological counselor and obtained the graduation certificate.
Possess the qualifications of psychology, education, medical associate senior and above professional and technical occupations, and have received the prescribed standard hours of formal training as a psychological counselor, and have obtained the graduation certificate, and have been engaged in psychological consulting work for three consecutive years.
2. National Professional Qualification Level 2 Counselor
1. Doctorate in psychology, education, and medicine.
(2) Master's degree in psychology, education, or medicine. After the formal training of psychological counselor, the standard number of hours has been reached, and the certificate of completion has been obtained.
3. Obtain the Level 3 Professional Qualification Certificate of Psychological Counselor, have been engaged in psychological consulting work for three years, have reached the specified standard class hours after the Level 2 formal training of psychological counselor, and obtain the graduation certificate.
(4) Possess intermediate and above professional qualifications in psychology, education, and medicine. After the second-level formal training of psychological counselor, he has reached the specified standard class hours, obtained the graduation certificate, and has been engaged in psychological consultation for three consecutive years.
3. National Professional Qualification Level 3 Counselor
1. Bachelor degree or above in psychology, education, or medicine.
(2) He has a college degree in psychology, education, and medicine. He has received three levels of formal training as a psychological counselor and has reached the required standard hours. He has also obtained a certificate of completion.
(3) Bachelor degree or above in other majors. After the formal training of psychological counselor level 3, the required standard hours have been reached, and the certificate of completion has been obtained.
Those who met one of the above conditions could register at their local professional skill appraisal center.
Second, what are the employment prospects of a counselor?
Judging from the looks of it, the psychological consultation industry in China was still in the development stage. There would be relevant system changes in the industry in China, and the psychological consultation in China would be more and more in line with international standards.
Although more and more people were taking the psychological counselor examination, the demand for this profession in society was growing. Moreover, this profession was a very new industry in the new century. The 21st century was the century of psychology. People's material wealth was getting richer, but their hearts were getting poorer. They needed a lot of psychological consultation as a consolation for their hearts.
A counselor needed to have two qualities. The first was excellent skills. The second was that a counselor in China needed to have good marketing skills. In other words, if you need to find a job to survive, you need to have a certain marketing ability to build a personal brand of a counselor. Therefore, the prospects of a counselor must be good. As for the personal employment prospects, it still depends on one's actual situation!
He then looked at the questions and answers he had taken before.
What is obsessive-compulsive disorder?
A: It's a neurosis, or obsessive-compulsive disorder for short. It's a type of neurotic disorder with repeated obsessive-compulsive concepts and forced movements as its basic characteristics.
What is internet syndrome?
A: It's a syndrome caused by Internet addiction. At first, it's a mental dependence, eager to "roam" online. Later, it can develop into physical dependence. It's mostly manifested as depression, dizziness, trembling hands, fatigue, loss of appetite, and so on.
What is insomnia?
A: Ininsomnia is a condition where the quality and/or quantity of sleep is unsatisfactory for a long time. It is often manifested as difficulty falling asleep, inability to fall asleep, difficulty maintaining sleep, and early or intermittent waking up, resulting in insufficient sleep.
How to overcome frustration?
- Frustration and adversity are everywhere in life, but frustration can make people lose confidence and courage, so we must learn to respond positively to setbacks.
(1) When you encounter setbacks, you must calmly analyze them, find out the reasons for the setbacks from the objective, subjective, goal, environment, conditions, and other aspects, and take effective remedy measures.
(2) Set a suitable goal and adjust your own goals in the process of achieving them. He had to consider his own strengths, establish a goal that was suitable for him, and devote himself to his work. If during the implementation process, the target was found to be unrealistic and the progress was blocked, the target must be adjusted in time to continue moving forward. The famous playwrights Cao Yu had wanted to be a doctor when he was young. He failed to get into Beijing Medical College three times. Then he turned to drama and finally achieved great success.
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